personally when I meet a single guy whether or not they have children is one of my top "questions".... as a single mom and knowing the responsibilities that come with children, the amount of involvement that a dad has in their child's life says a lot about them. I would actually prefer to be in a relationship with a man that is raising their children at least has an active part in their children's lives because those are the men that get it, they understand the struggles of juggling time to do things for yourself...