It's better to like someone then it is to love someone you do not like. That being said then it is possible for people to have many different relationships, and over a lifetime experience any number of them. Some of my best memories are of people I liked and of having sex with them but, there are some memories of the people I loved and then there are the ones who I did not know at all. Some how we met and ended up in bed. I cannot seem to remember anything negative, some just better than others. People need other people and a variety of people keeps things interesting. This viewpoint comes from an admitted sex addict looking for fun wherever it can be found. Call me.

Most men and women have little in common beyond raising children and sex. I could not imagine spending most of my time with a woman. It's not that women are bad, just different and I find it hard sacrificing my time just to satisfy my sexual need. Casual friendships with men who share similar ideals make it possible to get down and then get back to what you were doing. It's also a lot cheaper. I do not want dinner and a movie I want what comes after and would rather skip the dinner and movie. Maybe a bit of porn once in a while and a snack.