Emotional intelligence and ownership of ones actions and behavior.

I don't throw the term around narcisist lightly.

That said, there are SO many malignant narcisists in the above average to very attactive corner of the dating pool these days that it hardly makes sense to catch feelings or fall in love anymore. That really sucks.

As for the onlyfans/camgirl/escort/sugarbaby women that have become so prevailent on the apps recently. If you wanna call it empowerment, you go girl!

The cost however is that a good successful masculine man is far less likeley to settle down and start a family with a sex worker. That may matter to you someday.