K. you say it like it is. A new Breath of air.

I'm an old man with 25 kids and a lot of bagage, had to divorce my last wife because the state said so, and still have a lot of fealings for her.
Have had a lot of relationships and never started one online, or with sex as the first interest.I'm a GEEK, and not ashamed of it, into robotics, building computers,Kayaking and injoying the outdoors.
Yes I am a member of the BDSM lifestyle, and have had a girl that I loved more then anyone outside the lifestyle could understand. She died In Iraq, and If I had my way..........
But enough with the hatered. We need to put people befor the governments, IN all countries!

HAve had friends that were betten up by there husbands/boyfriends, they
were disfigured then told they were to ugly to ever get another man.
They believed this, and some died believing this.
PLEASE never believe your the fault, or too ugly to find someone.
Someone is out there for everyone, and beauty is realy in the eye of the
beholder.
IF YOU REALY like pain, join a BDSM club and get a Master, dont let a
jerk control you.