That isn't entirely true. I think I have the basic concept down, but I am wondering about the finer details. Basically I feel this is supposed to help side step the bull **** process and just get down to knowing people. With that in mind how up front can you be with a person before you scare them? Sometimes I am too honest for my own good. Also, is it safe to assume that most people here are tired of the typical dating scene. I love a bar as much as the next guy but I don't think that over drinks is always the best way to meet someone. Then there is the club scene, it is always fun trying to yell at each other. So I guess if anyone has advice on what works and what doesn't would be great.