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Sun 03/31/24 04:22 PM
The t
idea of becoming a monk is starting to look like the only option.

No point in continuing being here, as n o one is compatible with me, so might as well take up painting or something.

Good luck to you all.

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Tue 03/26/24 08:15 AM
I take the easy option.....I don't have friends outside of where I work, so distance is never an issue.

Plus as they see me most days, I don't have to see anyone in the evenings or weekends.

Perfect solution!

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Tue 03/26/24 05:29 AM
I will stay single then. Better to die alone with dignity, self-resect and principles than to live with a woman who has no self-respect.

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Tue 03/26/24 01:27 AM
I wouldn't go on a date if there was no chance of it developing into a marriage. No point in wasting other peoples time or money.

I don't socialise, as theres no point to it. If I want a coffee, then I go home, as its far cheaper, and I can talk to plants there instead.

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Tue 03/26/24 01:25 AM
No. medical tests needed - I know a private clinic that have a series of tests to prove it. If a woman takes the tests and fails, I would walk away immediately.

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Mon 03/25/24 03:27 PM
If I ever found myself falling in love with someone who had sexual history, then they'd have to be willing to settle for a celibate marriage, with separate beds and separate rooms.

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Mon 03/25/24 03:25 PM
I don't want to waste anyone's time, so if there's no chance of marriage at the start (i.e., they have a previous relationship), then I don't bother with a date, as it's not worth wasting the time and money.

I've wasted time here talking to women who suddenly remember a previous relationship after several days of conversation.... obviously sex gives you amnesia!

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Mon 03/25/24 03:23 PM
I don't allow sex before marriage, so any woman who has ever had sex before isn't going to be compatible with me. Most of the women I know have previous relationships, which I would assume means sex, so I don't even bother asking.

Of course, asking them a question like that before a first date is difficult, so I do judge people....if they look like they've had a relationship, then it's not worth asking them out.

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Mon 03/25/24 12:48 PM
Maybe I just expect too much from a woman....but as I have self-control and self-respect, is that too much to ask?

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Mon 03/25/24 12:46 PM
maybe...but I'm old-fashioned, so I don't allow anything physical before marriage, hence why I've never been on a date.....

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Sun 03/24/24 02:56 PM
Plus I have an old-fashioned outlook on life, so will probably die single, without ever having had a relationship, or dated.

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Sun 03/24/24 02:55 PM
ell, at 52, I've probably given up ever having a first date.... been single all my life, and never managed a date before now, so maybe I am too old to start....

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Sun 03/24/24 10:05 AM
Strange question. when is someone too old to start dating?