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Sat 04/05/14 09:37 PM
Im sure id hear some bs about hotel wifi....ps he lives in a hotel

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Sat 04/05/14 09:28 PM
So here I am minding my own business. Along comes this man claiming to be an American currently living in Malaysia in a contract and has no money for food....and hes asking ME a total stranger to sponsor him until June.

Im really sorry for him if hes in need but im not gonna do some crap like that!

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Sat 04/05/14 07:03 PM
welcome to mingle heather flowerforyou

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Sat 04/05/14 12:26 PM



Why cant they hav casual sex when they are ready to adopt western culture??

sleazy boys try to promote promiscuity. lots of western women are NOT promiscuous.

so the two are not synonymous.


I would imagine the women of that region do not want to be with boys who promote the culture that fosters violent gang rape which is a real concern over there.





i agree being modern does not equate to being loose






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Sat 04/05/14 12:24 PM
ill date you if i find you interesting and we have things in common. Ill sleep with you if your my personal man

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Sat 04/05/14 10:28 AM




great advice im gonna try that one

Awesome! I hope it helps you. Its amazing the clarity that comes, when you no longer have sleep deprivation...ie: when your kids are grown.


hes only 2 and im anxiously awaiting the day slaphead

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Sat 04/05/14 10:24 AM
i really love this one

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Sat 04/05/14 10:16 AM





I followed through with everything I told my children.. I never threatened... I did it.

It teaches them that you mean what you say... and say what you mean.

helz. ya.



if only my son would let that be a bother. i dont think he cried for attention because he gets a lot i think hes just too damned stubborn.

we went to the supermarket and he wanted to be in my hands i told him no and he got into a fit....i told him bye and walked away, he walked off in the other direction.
lots of parents fall into that trap. Never bluff. you cant tell him 'bye'. You CAN tell him, you will follow my directions or you will lose 'whatever he likes' like computer time, cheerios, whatever.

You can be in my hands when we get home or tell him when he can have that if he cant now. Now you have to sit in the cart because I cant trust you to stay with me.

Love withdrawal should never be a consequence, or abandonment.



great advice im gonna try that one

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Sat 04/05/14 10:12 AM
a week vacation. PAID!

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Sat 04/05/14 10:11 AM

Please pray for me too...my husband had an affair and got the woman pregnant. I was so devastated because we dont have a child yet and i was wishing that we would share the joy of having our first born. He left me but he returned a few weeks after. He said he loves me and im his wife. But he can't resist his emotions towards his woman because they are having a child. It hurts me so much that he keeps seeing her and still sleeps with her. I dont know what to do. Should i leave him or not? Please advise me.


in my opinion what he feels for you is not love but ownership. I think you should let him go....you gave him the chance to redeem himself and he thinks its the green light to live a double life.

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Sat 04/05/14 10:08 AM
Make compromises in the favor. remember small details, be attentive, bring them little tokens every now and again and always try to keep them happy

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Sat 04/05/14 10:03 AM



I followed through with everything I told my children.. I never threatened... I did it.

It teaches them that you mean what you say... and say what you mean.

helz. ya.



if only my son would let that be a bother. i dont think he cried for attention because he gets a lot i think hes just too damned stubborn.

we went to the supermarket and he wanted to be in my hands i told him no and he got into a fit....i told him bye and walked away, he walked off in the other direction.

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Sat 04/05/14 10:00 AM

my ex hubby is a full custody dad. We never had kids together. It happened after we divorced. He left me because I had kids & pregnant wit someone else kid. (This was when we first met) He abused me for being a mom 1st & not after we married. Now tables turned. Hes treated like he treated me wit his kids(6). I have (4). Men dont see me as dating material because I cant have anymore because of cancer(ovarian). Im a survior of 5 yrs.Im. still here. You r more awesome than my sons dads. They dont want the responsibility. But keep having babies & running from caring for them & child support. I would love to date a dad who is a custodial parent. we can learn from each other.


wow, you've been through a lot. flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sat 04/05/14 09:45 AM

Me.....trapped in a male body.laugh :tongue:



laugh good one

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Sat 04/05/14 09:44 AM
i like being single. means more freedom but i miss companionship sometimes.

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Sat 04/05/14 09:42 AM

..if it wasn't for the intimacy part...Iwouldn't mind being single so much...I like me I like doing what i like to do.it is nice not having to accommodate someone else's desires...don't get me wrong.. I love being in a relationship..and compromising with each other...but for now i'm enjoying me...now if Me.could have sex 4 times a week..perfection..:wink:

laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 04/05/14 09:37 AM

hie can i be the one for you


here you go ladies, a black man seeking a white woman lol

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Sat 04/05/14 09:29 AM
Welcome to mingle Greer

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Sat 04/05/14 09:27 AM
welcome to mingle blond

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Wed 04/02/14 08:36 PM

how do you deal with it? tips??


he can either throw his tantrum while i ignore him or he can calm down and get my attention. sometimes he grabs me when i ignore him but he has to eventually calm down.....oh and if he gets really out of hand he'll get slapped.