I think many men fail at romance because they don't understand what they're doing. They think bringing a woman a flower is romance, when really, its just a nice gesture. Romance isn't about an individual act, its about the emotions between the couple that brings about the act. I find romance in things that a lot of people probably wouldn't.

The way I see it, women don't want you to bring them a flower because you think you should be "romantic" to keep her. A woman wants you to bring her a flower because she inspires you to want to bring her a flower. And, the trouble for many men is they can tell the difference.... ;-)


Being that I'm not a woman, take what I have to say with a grain of salt.