People in general are contradictory. Myself included. Not anybodys fault. Just the way life is.

I will speak what I'm experiencing and see if it rings a bell.

For reason unknown to me I am attracted to brunettes. A nice carmel skin tone with that would be my ideal. Just talking looks. Cause lord knows there is so much more to u women! Now, since my eyes get directed instantly to dark, i miss many blonds. And for all i know a blond is my soul mate. And until I completely open my self to all possible women, I really can't complain.

This is not directed at anyone, just my observation and experience. Its 2014, the last year I had a girl friend that had light hair was 1990! Yup, sophomore year of high school.

Wow!!! Just writing that sounds sad. And I thought I was living and lived all kinds of experiences.

If people are looking for their perfect match, they might be waiting an entire life time. Same premise for example as: "i will move and try that job out as soon as little Johnny is old enough to make a sandwhich. Next thing you know, little Johnny just knocked up his girl friend at age 17, then, you unit doing s%&t for a long time!

Ok, rambling. I'm out

People in general are contradictory. Myself included. Not anybodys fault. Just the way life is.

I will speak what I'm experiencing and see if it rings a bell.

For reason unknown to me I am attracted to brunettes. A nice carmel skin tone with that would be my ideal. Just talking looks. Cause lord knows there is so much more to u women! Now, since my eyes get directed instantly to dark, i miss many blonds. And for all i know a blond is my soul mate. And until I completely open my self to all possible women, I really can't complain.

This is not directed at anyone, just my observation and experience. Its 2014, the last year I had a girl friend that had light hair was 1990! Yup, sophomore year of high school.

Wow!!! Just writing that sounds sad. And I thought I was living and lived all kinds of experiences.

If people are looking for their perfect match, they might be waiting an entire life time. Same premise for example as: "i will move and try that job out as soon as little Johnny is old enough to make a sandwhich. Next thing you know, little Johnny just knocked up his girl friend at age 17, then, you unit doing s%&t for a long time!

Ok, rambling. I'm out

I've never been very successful because I'm selective about personalities I'm comfortable with being physically open with, but that's okay it just means I really very much prefer a very compatable lady and we honestly like each other as people.

It's just a tighter screen with your best interests at heart. The trick is to find every positive way of looking at yourself and the world all the time as best you can. People really respond to that and the rest is just patience I guess.

At least that's how I look at it. It's never rejection, it's always for the best. Would you want someone who didn't really want you? Do you like making yourself sad? No. So it was always for the best, it's never rejection.

Think of date sites as networking, but you have to increase your social activity to also meet people day to day, and look for opportunities to interact with strangers in a comfortable way, humour is often the best, a humourous comment in the checkout line and you've got a friend to chat with while you're shopping. You have to do these things because what you need is someone who likes you and that's about seeing your personality in action.

I like women who have CURVES. . . but I have a HUGE pet peeve:

SHOW SOME PHOTOS OF YOURSELF!!! I mean, come on... showing every photo of you from the top of the head to your **** is nice, but I don't know if you're hiding 200 lbs under those boobs or 600 pounds (and yes, there IS a difference).

BE HONEST! this includes in your photos.


SHOW WHO YOU ARE! Do you really think you'll hide your body when you meet in real life?


IF A GUY THINKS YOUR FAT IS UNATTRACTIVE wouldn't you rather not waste your time with him? Why lead him on only to have him not find you attractive in real life?

J.

okay just a thought.. don't take this the wrong way.. but you want help getting a bigger guy right.. just put a plate of donuts outside of a big and tall store.. and sit back and wait patiently.. with a Big net.. presto insta date..lol. .. I'm just kidding everybody knows I'm kidding.. seriously bigger are tall. fat or thin. we're all looking just as hard as you are.. don't give up its when you least expect it.. Mr Right comes out of the woods... who knows it could even be me... lots of love girl...

okay just a thought.. don't take this the wrong way.. but you want help getting a bigger guy right.. just put a plate of donuts outside of a big and tall store.. and sit back and wait patiently.. with a Big net.. presto insta date..lol. .. I'm just kidding everybody knows I'm kidding.. seriously bigger are tall. fat or thin. we're all looking just as hard as you are.. don't give up its when you least expect it.. Mr Right comes out of the woods... who knows it could even be me... lots of love girl...

to forget about it implies you give up hope... there's about 4-5 billion guys out there, i'm sure you can find one that fits the bill...

to forget about it implies you give up hope... there's about 4-5 billion guys out there, i'm sure you can find one that fits the bill...