No. No you're not. I am like you. I was raised with respect for the opposite sex. I was taught a real man holds the door for a lady, helps her with the housework and still goes to work while, if she chose to, stays home and take of the house and children. I was married for 20 years to a wonderful Mexican girl who was raised in a traditional household with traditional values, she loved me as much as I loved her (cancer took her from me). We spent almost every waking moment together that was possible to spend. This is, by my definition, a real man. Those aren't out dated thoughts going on in your head, it's just a bunch of f_cked up girls who were taught "marry for money fall into love - or divorce him and get it all". They think they are worth so much but really, what are they actually bringing to the table? Looks only last so long, most barely finished high school, have 0 education for street life and almost always go with the bad boy over the good boy, and when the bad boy leaves them with the 4 children and runs off with some other girl, then they start calling again. Guy listen, if you are a good man and respect your wife and she does the same, all will work out. The REALLY hard part is finding that girl....

I don't know if I can agree with the point of view here. I was raised as a well mannered child, I was sent to etiquette school, learned in the ways of other philosophies and to value and respect women - above all else your wife. However, I personally believe there are 3 states of being in this sex & love thing. Having sex is meaningless if there is no physical attraction and if there is a physical attraction, then why not stay together? You will never know if Mr or Mrs right comes along and smacks you in the face if you are too busy looking for your next conquest. People who are lucky enough to find someone else who shares even some same interests as you is lucky enough. My parents would sometime argue, terrible arguments, I asked my father why do they do that and he tried to explain it to me - sometimes you meet a woman and she is a good woman, only a fool throws her away. If things don't always work you try again.

So there is some hope. Just not much....seems the only place to meet real girls is in the forums. So then where do they get the photographs?