it is the nature of the beast for (most) men to seek sex at every opportunity. it is written in our dna. it is the nature of the beast for (most) women to seek sex, it is written in their dna. instinct but for different reasons. love is a different matter (emotion) altogether and is most definitely not written in our dna. as such the two, sex & love should not be confused. the human race is the only species to have sex between male & female purely for pleasure. descarte, i think therefore i am.