After recently separating and heading towards a divorce with two kids in tow I would advice u to wait until he makes it clear under no uncertain terms he wants u to be his wife n only woman for the rest of his life. I never thought i could divorce my husband but it's amazing what someone can do to make u change ur views. Now my only regrets are my everyday thoughts of did I push him into our marriage our kids even though I no all our decisions were mutual and much wanted at the time it's a terrible thought to live with. Sorry if it seems negative just being real. Hope he shows u how much he wants to b ur husband n u guys live happily together for a very long time :)