I'm the homebody type. I would rather stay at home with my boys then go
out, however once I get out I have a great time. I just am having a
hard time meeting someone who I have a "connection" with

I guess anything is possible. He hasn't called since we broke up. I
think your right and I shouldn't call, but why is it still so hard to
move on?

He broke up with me on my birthday

Fine - he doesn't want to have sex, then were not boyfriend girlfriend
we are just friends....do I call and wish him a happy b-day?

chismah for some reason I cant respond to your im....not sure why

Ok. I have no one I can talk to about this and I really, really need
some sound advice.
I dated a guy for 5 months. We got along really well, we could sit and
talk for hours, about everything and nothing. The only problem in our
relationship was he didn't want to have sex. We had the perfect
relationship except for the intimacy. He would always make excuses.
First it was that he wanted us to be friends first. Then it was that we
couldn't at my house because I don't have my own room and he was afraid
my kids would walk in on us, then it was that he was embarrassed about
his apartment because it was dirty.Finally on my birthday he came over
and we broke up. That was almost 2 months ago. Now tonight it's his
birthday and I want to call him and wish him a happy birthday but I know
I probably shouldn't.
I thought we were good friends and were working towards a future,
obviously I was wrong. Why is it taking me so long to get over him?