So, I just don’t know how to wrap my mind around this. He states he loves me and is obsessed with me, then when the military makes us go long distance, I catch him on all sorts of dating sites. (Yes, I’m on here, but only specifically for friends and to meet people since I’m new to the area.) He once said that he loves me and is attracted to me, but that our conversation gets bland and he wants excitement. He even countered that we could open our marriage up?!? Man, I guess I’m here to just vent cause I wouldn’t mind having another man/woman to treat me well, especially when he doesn’t… but the thought of him with another just makes my blood boil.