I don't really know much about the situation, but I have always found that talking about your troubles with your partner (or potential one) to be the most effective way to get your feelings through to them. I'm no love doctor, but try it. If he isn't willing to listen to you, then the relationship would never work. Plus, you may be able to come to an agreement. Sort of like meeting each other at the half-way marker and you may find that things will work out favorable for both of you!
Hope this helps some, and good luck!

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