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Trust
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Hey fellow kiwi how r you? Very wise words .Although I agree with most members on this topic howeva in the interest of healthy debate and balance I've given the impression I condone snooping which i dnt .It seemz the wheelz mayb falling off our mate john key and his capitalism party's bus heres hoping lol
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Trust
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Yes I have and wholeheartedly regretted it. A) because it ain't right and B) because my intuition turned out to be right. Then you're stuck with the question: What am I gonna do with the knowledge? Him angry cause I snooped, me angry cause of what he'd done. So yeah, I had done something wrong, but so had he ... Yes its neva simple these situations .I wonder tho if you hadn't of snooped would he have been honest and confessed if as I suspect the answer is no or he would've and no snoopin was needed ()was he angry you snooped or he waz caught ?you felt bad for snoopin because it ain't right if you hadn't of and it eventually came out some time down the track would you feel you let yourself down for nt investigating and takin his word nothin was happening? Finally you end with I had done a wrong but so had he done a wrong thats 2 wrongs nw iam assuming these two wrongs had brought you to a point where you made things right for yoursself so to answer pacificstar48 qoute 2 wrongs dnt make a right in this case they did 
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Trust
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If you have to snoop, it really isn't a relationship in the loving, trusting sense anymore. It is now based on fear and distrust. Yes I belive your statement to be true in the most literal sence however I do wonder if its that clearly defined in the depths of a long term relationship If you look at the statistics of divorce, long term is getting shorter. Very true I haven't looked at any divorce statz however just thinkin about present and past generationz just in my own family my great grandparents and grandparent's had long term marriages in the till death do us part sence of the word |
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Trust
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If you have to snoop, it really isn't a relationship in the loving, trusting sense anymore. It is now based on fear and distrust. Yes I belive your statement to be true in the most literal sence however I do wonder if its that clearly defined in the depths of a long term relationship |
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Trust
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The old saying "Two wrongs do not make a right" applies here. I totally disagree with if things look wrong and you suspect addiction that you should snoop. That only pours gasoline on a fire. If you suspect that you are dealing with problems related to and addiction in a relationship with a significant other in a committed relationship then educate yourself about your resources and the subject then face to face address the issue with your partner in a safe place. Betraying someone in crisis is not going to help anyone. You have the right to protect yourself and I would suggest you do that but snooping in ways that violate your honor makes you just as sick as the addict. Thanku I enjoyed your prospective on this topic a very measured and educated approach .if i may clarify a few points |
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Trust
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Kool reply dude
 totally agree
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Love Vs. Money?
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Another astute observation
If that same man came along and told you he loves you muchly but he was financially secure and you had so many outstanding bills would the same answer apply? Or I love you and your money right back handsome? 
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Trust
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NO, I never snooped, no one ever gave me reason. I'm the trusting type anyway. The other way round I agree with Annie, always up front and honest, only way a relationship works. |
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Trust
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These are lovely sincere replys ladys
 being in a relationship where openess and honesty and trust are never questioned awesome
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Love Vs. Money?
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Are you asking in general or just housing bubble crisis? I guess.. its a matter whether this relationship an asset or liabilities? In general, if a man comes and tell me how much he loved me and yet have so many outstanding bills .. then thank you so much for your love... so next please 
If its pertaining to investment purchases, then I will assume its a 2 persons decision.. In any case of crisis both parties should work together.. But on other hand when an investment decision is being made, shouldn't all factors be taken into consideration (Risk should be minimise) 
This is sooooo "chinese"...  
Lol you took the thought right out of my head a very witty and correct observation |
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hi room
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Hmmm upon reading your profile it would seem your idea of love mayb romanticized alittle, not that its a bad thing but certainly makes finding it more difficult in my opinion. But good luck and dont give up on true love it may have found you and you just haven't realized it yet :)
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extramarital affairs
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I've heard stories like the one above by zookeep, and even lived one.....my ex had an affair when we first married (had been married a month, but with her for 3 years) long story short, I stupidly took her back, we worked through it counseling etc.....our relationship SEEMED to have been stronger because of it, and we both deluded ourselves thinking that it was actually a good thing that it happened. but the truth was there was now a constant underlying mistrust, she mistrusted me because she thought I'd cheat on her because she did it to me, and I didn't really trust her either even though we both pretended it was for the better, truth was an affair will put a PERMANENT gap in a relationship, yes you can repair it, however just like a hile thats been fixed on a ship, it will NEVER be as strong as the original Yes I do tend agree on the the underlying shadow of mistrust always being present .In the case of a close friend I recall him saying that when the repairs were being made the couples last act of reconciliation waz to both be brutally honest with them selfs if they coundnt let go of infidelity walkaway cos nothings really repaired. |
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extramarital affairs
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Can they actually help keep a relationship on track That statement takin at its simplest meaning brings me to the same conclusion as numerous lovely ladys who have posted a reply .However iam forced to recall more then one relationship ive witnessed where for many reasons the relationship is at breaking point and the man or woman has been tempted by the greener grass only to return repairs are made and these couples are stronger then ever .Now my point here is on occasionz the affair has played a part in there reunion for one or many reasons .Is this an example of the original question . (Names have been left out to protect the innocent ) lol |
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Rate me! Be honest :)
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Okay so how many guys actually like "voluptuous" women? I'm on the chubby side and well need an ego boost or some witty comments that will make me giggle or laugh. Would prefer no negative feed back :) out of 5  
Your 5 on the inside And 8 b your shape Voluptuous is sexy Makes you the perfect date 
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I just think what a lady will attract to first bodily desires or mindfully thoughts..but i think absolutely sex talking is not the answer Dude mayb making sence talking might b the answer just saying good luck |
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SitkaRains
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Positive thoughts and prayers would be appreciated,for this incredibly loving woman. Yesterday afternoon, she had an accident while horseback riding. She is in bad shape with broken bones . Arm, leg, ribs.... She will be ok. But has a lot of healing to do. Thank you. Best wishes for a speedy and complete recovery from Auckland New Zealand |
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Embarrassing Stories!
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In the early hours if one morning after some overindulgence in mr Johnny walker whiskey ive staggered out of the bar and found the nearest seat and blacked out .Upon being woken by sunlight and the sound of morning shoppers a old homeless man stood over me hand streched out repeatedly saying the word change change change Well I guess if a old homeless guy can see it mayb I should .
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what fish?
Edited by
zookeepersson
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Wed 06/24/15 05:11 AM
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While fishing oneday I was approached by fisheries officer Who without saying a word started inspecting my catch in a large bucket I had sitting on the rocks beside me .Excusse me sir are you aware the fish you intend to take are undersized and can incurre a fine of up to $5000 dollars .Oh na bro I replied iam nt taking these fish I brought them here for a swim there my pet fish I let them have a swim and then call them back .Well sir ive heard some excuses before but this ones a little far fetched .Bro il prove it with that I throw the fish into the ocean 10 minutes pass by and the fisheries officer says well go on then call your fish back .What fish
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Possible Reactions !!
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What would be once reaction when one see a known profile on M2?
How bout hi how you
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totally true this country is based on wealth not on who you are an the less you earn the less you are looked after by this goverment Yep agreein totally wat a shame aye we had a good thing goin down the bottom of the world here .Once upon time no matter who you were hard work waz rewarded benefits were used for the right reasons by most and jobs were plentyful for a decent wage oh and milo still tasted the same lol Oh just to add some balance we do have it better then most around the world however we seem to be doing our best to catch up to them |
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