oh this is an easy one, I think when a man sends a letter to you and tells you that he wants to please you, he is being so sincere and wanting to let you know that he wants you to be happy..yes it's true he wants you to be his happy bed partner and that your life and especially his life will be so much better when you tell him oh yes darling that is what I want to hear..how your going to please me and me please you even more for even longer.. I'll drink to that...so it really does raise a red flag? dam I would never have thought that...(just kidding ladies please don't hate me)