SO you find a profile you look at someones pictures - you see how they look - they like pizza walkking the dog , aeroplanes, glof, running, they are fun cheeky and love to laugh - ... the question is do we give enough thought to that person being sexualy compatible --- how many relationships have you had where you keep your desires and fantasys secret becasue your partner you love isnt interested at all .... the most boring sounding man likes golf, chess, walking, etc.. sexualy might ignite your soul in ways no one ever has .. how many peple are here single split up becasue the outside life that people see and the inside the bedroom life are two differnet things and they want to find both but only one half is talked about ...

Love or sex .... I want both and why not ... I dont think you can have a great wild sex life without the closeness of love and the passion or be in love without passion and lust as part of it ..
Depends on what kind person you are -- if your selfish lover then sex to fk another person is enough because you get what you want .. but if your like me and want to make the other person happy then you have to know that person .. .
Selfish is the only word i could think to describe pls dont be offended .. not menat in that way .. is the pleasure about you or them ..