Taking into account on culture, I do believe some in New Delhi, some people still practice arranged marriages, and you may not have been the one to pick your spouse. That being said, I also understand that if a woman decides to get a divorce that they normally get the short end of stick, especially if they are the ones to file. So I do get the your views on marriage may be very different on our Westernized views of Marriage, so many of the responses may reflect that.

I personally don't think it is a good idea to go outside of the marriage for satisfy your needs, Unless their is a physical problem with your wife making her unable to have sex, then the problem lies with you, that's right with you. If you are bored, ask for something different, maybe explain why you want to go outside the marriage, now if she is just unwilling to have sex with you period, then tell her that if she is unwilling to have sex(not every time you want it, she's not a personal whore), but explain that sex is a necessary part of marriage, and that you are considering divorce/cheating, she may just tell you to go ahead, that at least relieves your guilt, so I would say communication between your wife and you would be the key to answering this.

The men are very unattractive where I am. It's sad.....

There is so much porn out there, that for example, after school a kid is walking home and he goes into 7/11 for candy. HE SEES the magazines on the rack, and little parts of the raunchy ones behind the counter. So he walks home eating his M&Ms and and begins to develop an impression of women. There is a problem here, in my opinion.Any commentary?

I think its kinda creepy. You don't know who's on the other end of their words. It would be more stimulating to me if I knew the person otherwise its just words on a screen from a wierdo!

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