A bit personal, but anyway. They lost their father when they were 1, since then, I raised them. Don't over analyze or assume. Not everyone is scammers or bullshitters. And to be brutally honest, after having such a traumatic scam of a relationship, she is pretty is much dead to me. Reason, she fled and conned me for 5 years and then just went AWOL. No contact. Just like that, my whole life gone in an instant. Is that good enough? Are you on here as a nosey one or actually trying to find someone.

I feel your pain. There is nothing better than being a father. I had the most beautiful twin girls who turned 8 in January. Shortly after my wife at the time played me for a fool and the next thing I knew, my whole life disappeared infront of me. She took off with the girls and just went AWOL for a month. I was totally frantic, but to find out we are separated, no discussion. thousands of miles apart. House, vehicle, kids, wife. All gone and just abandoned me. Needless to say with her debt in my name. Had to wash, fold and pack up that whole house on my own. Very traumatic and I still have all their things. and she just remains to block me, dishonesty is what creates this and people use children as emotional weapons, it's so sad, don't be one of those, it must always be about the children. I'm in therapy now, but all I can say, cherish every moment. Empty quiet alone house is not something I would wish on my enemies.