You don't have enough toys and/or restraints in your bedroom, sir :)

Honestly. I think dating sites are a magnet for men (and women, but especially men) looking to hook up and have sex.. I don't think it matters what your username is, you'll still get the emails. What that doesn't mean is that's all there is, or they're all perverts, they're just looking for something you're not that's all. All you need to do is block the guys that go straight for it, no hassle from them again. You can concentrate on looking for, and/or waiting for guys looking for dates and friendship, and there are plenty of them too :) Don't just expect nice guys to contact you (Mr nice guy might be shy), you gotta make first contact too to up your odds. Make sure your profile states what you're looking for too ! :) Happy hunting x

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