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Mon 10/28/13 01:07 PM
Topic: Deprived of sex



f there are other forms of affection, the sex isn't a priority for me

#Fair point well made#

if its a relationship without affection, we would need to talk

I survived nearly 18 years without sex, I just haven't been brainwashed into thinking its a 'need' for my continued survival,,,,

or happiness


Well said and I agree 100%. :thumbsup:


I agree with this. Sex is nice and can be a great way for a couple to bond and express intimacy but it is far from the be all end all of a relationship.

But the absence of any kind of sexual exchange in a marital relationship should be a major red flag that something is seriously stressed. A real partner would want to find out why and try reasonable attempts to return what is suppose to be one of life's great pleasures to the union.