Just so ya know.
Some of us actually get widowed. Try being married for 18 years to the love of your life. Losing her to an illness. Then ,out of curiosity, sign up here. I find most of the folks here,regardless of age, have not a clue. Find someone around you now. Look hard if you have to. Take the time to get to know them. Shut up and listen. Really listen to them. Don't just wait for your turn to speak. I had it all. Now she's gone. It's probably too soon for me. But it's not too late for you. Just relax and listen. The rest will come to you.

Thanks for listening to me. Wasn't trying to offend.

I just recently became single through the death of my spouse.
get off of your computer and get out into the real world.
you will have a chance to actually meet a live person.
blind leadind blind.
hope I don't wind up like y'all.