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Sun 09/22/13 01:18 AM
would be tuff toi answer this one ..as i dont believ in any conventionls description of god..
i think..we are ALL special creatures.. and should treat each other as such

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Sat 09/21/13 08:52 PM
Edited by Randomideas on Sat 09/21/13 08:59 PM

Are you contacting them and they're not replying or are you just not getting any initial emails? Are you getting any page views?

yes im getting page views and very few contats .. and the ones i get are distinctly inapproriate (separated men, people who are far away.Etc).. they must not be reading my profile at all
. i have contacted a few .. but.. i think. most men are intimidated by me. which is not what i try to project at all . i just feel like.. its best not to waste time on things that should be stated up front.. ,you know. haha FULL DISCLOSURE!
i have already had a guy be aggressive and hostil because i told him he was WAY too young for me.. ..now THAT was scary... i blocked him

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Fri 09/20/13 07:02 PM
Edited by Randomideas on Fri 09/20/13 07:05 PM
:smile: hahaha i love myself.. thats why i dont wanna be anyone else..and i have been single .. since 1992..dated in between but never seriously for very long .. my BS detector has about a three month auto alarm..hahahalaugh
i just want to be cared for for who i am.. and ..there is no 'POOR Me " here =[
if it came across that way i must have been unclear.. i do alone very well and have for the last 21 years... and its actually very rare for me to even try to do this dating thing again..
i am not saying poor me.. just ..aint it a shame that we all cannot be accepterd for who we are?
and i will stay alone if i cannot be myself. cause.. im actually a pretty neat gal with alot of talent and alot to offer.. as a matter of fact im playing a gig next friday..and have things ;lined up to the end of the year...cause im a singer and a damn good one..and music is a real lifelong companion that never lies or stabs me inthe back ....
and one other thing is i dont want a man who doesnt stand on his own two feet .. im not a taxi or a bank..
and one of the things i tell other women all the time =esp. those in abusive relationships.. "you gotta love YOURSELF" so thats a given for me.
:banana:

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Fri 09/20/13 04:57 PM
haha your piuc scares me and i dont scare easily best wishes

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Fri 09/20/13 04:54 PM
i DId check out one vid by Rori raye.. and things like this always come don to this observation on my part.. Realtionships.. shouldnt seem like so much work.. if it has to be such hard work ..it doesnt seem worth it.. also.. (and i WIL check out a few more of her vids) iot comes across as the same old be a girly grily flitatious type.. play games to "get".. a man.. nah!!!not .. whats the point?? try to "lure ' someone in by false pretenses? pretend to be something you arent.. gee.. if i was amn ..i donthtink iw oul;d be very hnappy ..when i founf out the woman i was dating turned out to be something other than she presented herslf to be.. haha now im bummed out again. no feeling this can ever work. its just too complicated to be a real woman, apparently

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Fri 09/20/13 04:50 PM
hahahaha seems longer... i really end up thiunking ..its just impossible .. and Imn aLeo ! a fire sign .. patience.. gets less and less as time passes by time goes by too quickly .. to much patience..wastes time
but thanks for your response.

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Fri 09/20/13 04:32 PM
oh!!1 just another observation..about the little gilr part.. years ago i was more like that and had men tell me.. "im not looking to take care of or support anyone ..i want a strong confident woman...'
so..agin ..it DOES seem hopeless on this end.. why bother anymore.. i MUST be myself anything else is dishonest.

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Fri 09/20/13 04:29 PM
hi thanks for your response.,. i wasnt meaning that im looking for female friends and i guess i was ambiguous about that== i was looking ..specifically= on here (Forum) to get womens point of view on my profile..as well as what males think. im sure some women are successful and i was wondering what another woman may think of my profile .
i apreciate any feedback!

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Fri 09/20/13 04:27 PM
thanks for your honesty.. i have been told many years ago that i come across a strong woman.. and it scares men.. also.. one younger guy(friend of a friend) told me.that they kind of man who is also strong enough to approach me.. may be the kind of guy who will scare ME! hopeless situation!!1 and at our ages.. highly unlikely i will change....i think.. in my life this is why i have many male FRIENDS and very few female friends..i AM direct ..i dont play games or play coy.. when i see other women do that and play the "bat your eyelashes "flirting game =it sickens me.. because its a lie....im totally honest and upfront. i was raised that way. plus ..ima lead singer and bandleader for many yeras,, had toi work closely with men as EQUALS.. and.. sometimes .as their "boss"(hiring and firing if necessary)
agin .. i thank and applaqud you for your honesty.. but it sure does underline something for me.. that i should probaly reconcile myself to being alone.. because i will not play games and be deviouis and deceitful to have a relationship .. no way.

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Fri 09/20/13 03:08 PM
just say a but more about yourself darlin.. ! good luck to ya

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Fri 09/20/13 03:07 PM
rotate your pic so its easier to look at

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Fri 09/20/13 03:04 PM
other than dumb typos which im fixing gradually.. why am i not getting any responses...seriously= opening it up to all male or female to respond.. just curious.. im perplexed also .by men..whio say absolutley NOTHING about themselves ..and say I want a woman"
like shes just gonna pop right up and jump in his life without knowing anything about him! whats up with that?

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Thu 09/19/13 10:04 PM
prob. because you say you are separated and many of us dont want any issues with a spouse

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Thu 09/19/13 01:19 PM
i noticed that .. for some reason on here.. when writng things out.. it seems to add an "N' in front of things,im not the best typist inthe world but after i looked over things i saw this..odd ,huh?

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Wed 09/18/13 08:22 PM
gosh your're so pretty and young= i cant imagine you would need a dating site

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Wed 09/18/13 08:20 PM
just curious.. it seems ..the guys dont write anyhting at all about themselves.. i kind of want to know what they guys think.. STRICTLY about the things i wrote.. not what i look like..

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