All bs aside players are just lie. You want to meet women stop being afraid worst that can happen is you get shut down. So what. There is no one answer but try this go to your local public and only talk to the hotchicks but don't try to pick them up. Talk to them ask question. All women like to talk about themselves.but you need to, easy with question.ie work....music.. Fun. Mabey a easy complement like you hair is cool did you do yourself. Supply women don't want players theymostly want someone to talk to