I block the scammers, but instead I will begin to report the scammers...great ideal! Put the spot light on them and get them out of the way of someone that has good intentions of dating.

Smart move...report them!

By blocking them I'm still part of the problem...need to report them!



Doug

I'm starting to question if "LOVE" is worth giving it your all!

Even if you find "LOVE", then you still have a world of challenges.

When you do fall in "LOVE" you don't know how long it will last for.

Even the ones that fall in "LOVE" have problems on a daily basis.

Is "LOVE" worth the trouble?

Doug

I want to thank everyone for there replies so far!
Doug

Believe or not, the reason I think that scammers are successful is that they ask the intimate questions and act personable with asking lots of questions. That is exactly what you want out of someone that your looking to fall in love with. Lot's of questions to show interest. But, in reality you don't fall in love that often! If you fell in love then these are the questions that you would ask one another and this is the kind of interest that you would show one another. The scammers know this and ask those questions. Where the scammers make a mistake is asking for money!!! Never brake the golden rule, "Never give money!"
Doug

Thanks to everyone that has welcomed me so far!
Doug

I have ran into so many scammers it is unreal...anyone with any intelligence is going to verify who they are talking to if they are local or not. How many scammers have I ran into...probably over 20?!

I personally figure out if they are a scammer very quickly. If they have stolen pictures off the internet, I up front ask that someone send me a picture with my name written a piece of paper with a recent picture of them in the same recent picture. Second, I ask for a phone video. Now, both do not prove they are not scammers but it gives you a better ideal if they have stolen pictures or if there going to take the extra step to prove there identity.

Most all my stories are the same...they ask a thousand personal questions that make it seem like there trying to get to know you and they are relentless at asking the questions. The picture is of someone that is just out of your league (I'm not saying that some are better than others, just saying I know reality). They live out of country or a very long distance away. They are only willing to send you pictures that are posed and no original pictures with being able to identify themselves as being legit. To be honest, the stories are so ridiculous, how do people fall for it?

How do scammers even make a profit? It would seem to me that anyone would detect them. Their so obvious!

It's just crazy!

Note: I know scammers are everywhere!

Good luck on detecting the scammers everyone, because they sure make dating hard.

Doug

Hi, I am new here, looking to meet new people - hopefully. Don't be shy women I don't bite so drop me a message. I am really genuine & I want to get to know some of you women so come and say hi! :)

I've been dating for 3 years online and it seems that everyone says they are looking for "love", but when you contact someone there is no communication. It is me asking all the questions. Should the man be the one asking all the questions. Then, I find that people do not tell the truth about what they look like before you meet. I find that everyone has so much candy(possible matches) to choose from that they are only sampling a piece of each candy really quick and not getting to know each other. It seems even if I find the right woman, that there is cheating going on every where, arguments with your mate, etc...Should I stay single or keep looking for love?

Give me a reason to keep looking for love!

Doug

What is my best? I'm glad someone ask this question...my best I still do not know...I have not met the love of my life and have not really ever had to give my best! My best is yet to come when I find true romantic love that my wife looks at me to lead and she loves me with all her heart and will do anything for me and in return I will do anything for her. Then, I will know my best.

What is your best?

Doug

What should I do different?
Doug