We are all searching in this proverbial pool of potential connections that could lead to brand new adventures like a voyage to the point of love and family. Why do we all seem to either settle or pick apart our own chances? And do we really have the time to ponder?

We are all special in Gods view, even the sinner. Woman where created as companions to man they are the nurturers and the counselors and the healer and the motivation to man as man is the protector and the provider but jump into the present and we are all equal in position and in and on all levels, this makes it even better cause now God is pleased to see Man and Woman fulfilling his charge of both becoming one That is the special thing created.

If by Honey you are referring to a partner vrs money...that would be easy... "Honey" every one knows with the right person by your side anything is possible so money would be ours any way.

First I would like to say I do understand this question was directed to the Ladies. But in good form I will attempt to help the other guys having problems figuring this out...First she is first, do not say some thing if it is not true no matter how small the lie it is still a lie. Next never make her feel like she is a bother in any way...she is your partner. Show her intimacy daily, and I don't mean sexual stuff, I mean suttle touching and soft kisses, don't rush everything let them have the ranges some time...Women want some one to take care of but at the same time they want some one that can take care of them and it is not all about money. A lady on a date site is either trying to find that one part of a man they need in their own lives or they are looking for a real friend and lover. And any woman that is looking for a man for the wrong reasons will never find him, and if you the man looking for real love, if you want her to be even interested in you then just be real, speak from your heart and no matter what never settle till you fine her and for her the same , Mr. and Mrs. right now, can and will cause you to miss real love so either give 100 % to your new partner or let them move on to happiness and stop wasting your time.

Hey I am new to Portland Oregon and dating..