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ImortalKnight Joined Fri 09/06/13 Posts: 67	Sun 09/22/13 11:42 AM
We are all searching in this proverbial pool of potential connections that could lead to brand new adventures like a voyage to the point of love and family. Why do we all seem to either settle or pick apart our own chances? And do we really have the time to ponder?

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Sun 09/22/13 03:07 PM
We are all searching in this proverbial pool of potential connections that could lead to brand new adventures like a voyage to the point of love and family. Why do we all seem to either settle or pick apart our own chances? And do we really have the time to ponder? Could you explain what you mean by that question. Not sure I understand what you are getting at.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Sun 09/22/13 07:32 PM
We are all searching in this proverbial pool of potential connections that could lead to brand new adventures like a voyage to the point of love and family. Why do we all seem to either settle or pick apart our own chances? And do we really have the time to ponder? I know a lot of people who settle and pick apart each relationship before it ever had a chance. I don't get it either. There are enough complications in life to hamper our chances of finding compatible relationships without adding our own road blocks.

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Sun 09/22/13 08:35 PM
We are all searching in this proverbial pool of potential connections that could lead to brand new adventures like a voyage to the point of love and family. Why do we all seem to either settle or pick apart our own chances? And do we really have the time to ponder? I know a lot of people who settle and pick apart each relationship before it ever had a chance. I don't get it either. There are enough complications in life to hamper our chances of finding compatible relationships without adding our own road blocks. Definitely agree with this!

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Sun 09/22/13 08:46 PM
I pick mine to death..never know when to shut up Probably why .. .I'm alone.. I am a mean picky b I t c h Will take a special one..

loovedoove Joined Sun 09/15/13 Posts: 154	Sun 09/22/13 08:48 PM
Well one of the problems is that many people have a long list, some actually written down, of dislikes or must haves in a potential mate. Now do not get me wrong I do have some things I just flat out will not tolerate in a mate but I am very open minded. I have learned to never say never.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sun 09/22/13 08:55 PM
We are all searching in this proverbial pool of potential connections that could lead to brand new adventures like a voyage to the point of love and family. Why do we all seem to either settle or pick apart our own chances? And do we really have the time to ponder? Because Hapenis is hard to find?

bigconda Joined Sun 09/22/13 Posts: 6	Sun 09/22/13 11:05 PM
We are all searching in this proverbial pool of potential connections that could lead to brand new adventures like a voyage to the point of love and family. Why do we all seem to either settle or pick apart our own chances? And do we really have the time to ponder? I know a lot of people who settle and pick apart each relationship before it ever had a chance. I don't get it either. There are enough complications in life to hamper our chances of finding compatible relationships without adding our own road blocks. Definitely agree with this!

bigconda Joined Sun 09/22/13 Posts: 6	Sun 09/22/13 11:14 PM
I agree what you're saying we often make extra stress by picking the person apart before you get to know them, but in my case I feel I screen people so I don't leave myself open for hurt again.

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Sun 09/22/13 11:22 PM
I think maybe we question everything and pick everything apart because we don't trust anyone any more. It is hard to start a relationship up with someone new and not question things. I know if things are going good for me in a relationship, I start wondering OK WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS GUY AND WHAT MADE HIM FALL FOR ME? WHAT IS HE HIDING BECAUSE HE CAN NOT BE THIS PERFECT. So I think we all question things when we think that things are going to good for us.