Topic: Real happyness
ImortalKnight's photo
Sun 09/22/13 11:42 AM
We are all searching in this proverbial pool of potential connections that could lead to brand new adventures like a voyage to the point of love and family. Why do we all seem to either settle or pick apart our own chances? And do we really have the time to ponder?

dcastelmissy's photo
Sun 09/22/13 03:07 PM

We are all searching in this proverbial pool of potential connections that could lead to brand new adventures like a voyage to the point of love and family. Why do we all seem to either settle or pick apart our own chances? And do we really have the time to ponder?


Could you explain what you mean by that question. Not sure I understand what you are getting at. :smile:

1Cynderella's photo
Sun 09/22/13 07:32 PM

We are all searching in this proverbial pool of potential connections that could lead to brand new adventures like a voyage to the point of love and family. Why do we all seem to either settle or pick apart our own chances? And do we really have the time to ponder?


I know a lot of people who settle and pick apart each relationship before it ever had a chance. I don't get it either. There are enough complications in life to hamper our chances of finding compatible relationships without adding our own road blocks. flowerforyou


dcastelmissy's photo
Sun 09/22/13 08:35 PM


We are all searching in this proverbial pool of potential connections that could lead to brand new adventures like a voyage to the point of love and family. Why do we all seem to either settle or pick apart our own chances? And do we really have the time to ponder?


I know a lot of people who settle and pick apart each relationship before it ever had a chance. I don't get it either. There are enough complications in life to hamper our chances of finding compatible relationships without adding our own road blocks. flowerforyou




Definitely agree with this! :smile:

no photo
Sun 09/22/13 08:46 PM
I pick mine to death..never know when to shut up
Probably why ..
.I'm alone..
I am a mean picky b I t c hwhoa slaphead

Will take a special one..shades

loovedoove's photo
Sun 09/22/13 08:48 PM
Well one of the problems is that many people have a long list, some actually written down, of dislikes or must haves in a potential mate. Now do not get me wrong I do have some things I just flat out will not tolerate in a mate but I am very open minded. I have learned to never say never.

krupa's photo
Sun 09/22/13 08:55 PM

We are all searching in this proverbial pool of potential connections that could lead to brand new adventures like a voyage to the point of love and family. Why do we all seem to either settle or pick apart our own chances? And do we really have the time to ponder?


Because Hapenis is hard to find?

bigconda's photo
Sun 09/22/13 11:05 PM



We are all searching in this proverbial pool of potential connections that could lead to brand new adventures like a voyage to the point of love and family. Why do we all seem to either settle or pick apart our own chances? And do we really have the time to ponder?


I know a lot of people who settle and pick apart each relationship before it ever had a chance. I don't get it either. There are enough complications in life to hamper our chances of finding compatible relationships without adding our own road blocks. flowerforyou




Definitely agree with this! :smile:

bigconda's photo
Sun 09/22/13 11:14 PM
I agree what you're saying we often make extra stress by picking the person apart before you get to know them, but in my case I feel I screen people so I don't leave myself open for hurt again.explode :angry: :wink:

unsure's photo
Sun 09/22/13 11:22 PM
I think maybe we question everything and pick everything apart because we don't trust anyone any more. It is hard to start a relationship up with someone new and not question things. I know if things are going good for me in a relationship, I start wondering OK WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS GUY AND WHAT MADE HIM FALL FOR ME? WHAT IS HE HIDING BECAUSE HE CAN NOT BE THIS PERFECT.
So I think we all question things when we think that things are going to good for us.