You obviously want to work things out,and that's great,but you must think about those children first!! Move in move out that's all fine and good for an adult, but not at all cool when kids are involved. Comunication and limits with boundaries need to be agreed.upon. I'd be very hesitant to revisit a live in situation without some serious groundrules being laid out first. Time and true sharing of each others wants and needs can't be a bad thing if both parties have the same goal in mind . Good luck to you both and remember the little ones come first!!!!