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Mon 10/27/08 10:39 AM

Kiniving and lying,

there is more to this but id rather not say
but for me IM FREEEEEEE!!!!

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Mon 10/27/08 10:38 AM
Kiniving and lying,

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Thu 10/23/08 02:08 PM
Single and raising my daughter!

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Tue 10/21/08 09:45 AM
hope you feel better. now explain how this match works i read the instructions but i am still a little bit confused on it.

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Tue 10/21/08 09:25 AM
hey there

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Tue 10/21/08 09:23 AM

It's never easy finding someone with whom you connect with. Especially when you have the feeling that you like your life, but you know it could be tons better if you had someone special their to share it with.

Love is a mysterious fig. It can make you so damn happy, and it can rip your heart out. But we all want it. We all want to find someone to share life with, to be with at night to cuddle on the couch, to do silly things with that makes us feel like a kid again. We just want it so bad that we look so hard for it. And that is the irony of it. We want it, so we go in search of it, only most of the time we never find it. It's when we least expect it that love comes walking in. You don't recognize it at first, but eventually you see it.

You have a situation where you are a single dad. You want someone to take you and your child for and complete you. Not an easy thing to do, but the trick is that you can't project how bad you want to find someone. Alot of times, when you do this, you end up falling for someone for the wrong reasons. I don't know the answers man, but I do know this. Not every woman can make you happy, but their is one out there that will make you a "goofy mess" (that's a good thing too). She will come in and not compete with you child. She will come in and the both of you will work to make a family. Maybe you will meet a single mother. Maybe not. Who knows? But the point is that their is someone out their for you.

Date awhile, meet some ladies from here, take it slow. And don't meet a woman and go "She could be the one". Just enjoy the ride my friend. I don't know how long it will take, but it will be worth it.


Thanks Goof. First i have to find a date without the usual bar scene lol. I am not desperate by any means. I am just hoping the right woman will come around. Its really hard to "get out" when you have a child.

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Mon 10/20/08 09:57 PM

both u dont want to be hurt again or have your kids hurt iam there too lol


Agreed. My Daughter is happy but she shows signs of depression. shes 3 and regressing in alot of ways. I am done with the hurt. I had to move on hold my head up high and try my best to raise y daughter. I dont want to get hurt again. I want to find a woman that knows what committed and unconditional love is.

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Mon 10/20/08 09:09 PM

My advice is keep your girl with you and do your best impressions of her best expressions - that'll do it.

Provide more personal insight and future goals (you're young enough to achieve); also change the expressions when you're not with your daughter. Change your walk!


what do you mean by change expressions when i am not with my daughter. I have changed my walk since I have left the Military. I have focused a lot on my daughter and seeing her grow and succeed. As any parent i want her to have it better than I did. Her mom disserted me because I got discharged. I have started as a carpenters apprentice with a union to find a trade i can use.

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Mon 10/20/08 09:00 PM



Hey...lots of us have "jiggly" parts. Hope you mean that in a good way :) LOL!
blushing


What other way is their? Plus, kite flying is a chick magnet. laugh


I have a kite...
does it work in reverse and attract guys???


What kind of kite lol. problem is that there are not many places where I live to fly a kite. plenty of buildings and power lines. i have tried once. Atlanta is a hard place to fly a kite.

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Mon 10/20/08 06:51 PM
still new to this site. I have not met anyone yet so to speak but it IS more relaxed and casual than other dating sites.

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Mon 10/20/08 06:44 PM
I am still trying to figure it out

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Mon 10/20/08 06:41 PM
Sandy Springs ,GA Born and Raised

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Mon 10/20/08 06:12 PM
hello

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Mon 10/20/08 06:01 PM

hi well people say to me when u quit looking you will find her and its true cus i was talking to a man in the doctors office and now we are going to go out , i hope u do hun


thanks and good luck!

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Mon 10/20/08 05:57 PM
I am a divorced single dad. I am happy and content with my life but I have that missing part now and its bugging me. I have learned to stop trying hard to find the woman that I can be with. How do I get myself out there without the bar scene. I have been looking but I guess my assertiveness has left me. Is it me being a dad that has made me subconsciously cautious? or Is my fear of rejection rearing its head.