hi everyone. first message. new to this and 1 finger speller so 4give mistakes. am in complicated personal situ...1 reason i do not put up pic. is cos i have an x who visits dating sites. abhor the idea of him looking at my dtails etc..rcently started to engage online and via phone calls with a man who professed to b a good sort. will not bore u with all the dtails he arranged a coffee date and never showed. no apology or follow up phone call. i suspect he eyeballed me and decided i wasn,t his cup of t. that,s o.k....but. follow up call is just a courtesy. r we not adults??? many reasons xist i blieve that may dter people from wanting to put pic.s up.