I think that it's important to be up front at first with people, you
need to explain how you feel about relationships. Some people feel that
if you aren't together you are free to see other people.
For example a conversation might go like this... I feel that if we
discuss being together as a couple and we determine that we would like
to be a couple then I am commited to be with you and only you for the
duration of our relationship as a couple. However untill the time when
that conversation takes place I feel free to see who ever I want when
ever I want, and if you have a problem with that then maybe you are the
one who needs to be more honest with your feelings (leading back to the
discussion in the first comment).

However if you discuss being serious and see each other as a couple then
it's different.

You really must distinguish how casual it is because if you are acting
like you are courting her (sex isn't always a courting behavior) then
she might expect fidelity and monogamy as though you were a couple.
However if you are very casual and are very even(spliting the cost of
dates and being fair with each others time), and don't kiss up to her
and buy her gifts all the time and you have not discussed only seeing
each other. Then I would say your game as long as you put on the table
your feelings and intentions!

Born here and have been living here for atleast the past 10 years.
Would be a native if it were not for my fking parents.
I would only move to BC, alaska or switzerland. I could maybe settle
for cali, washington, wyoming, montana and utah but why?
This state suites me best! Just a wild boy in the woodz!

WOW! just a bunch of wussies I guess. How boring!

Any ladies out there that are as wild as me? rock climbing, 4 wheelin,
mountianeering, sk8boarding, snowboarding?