I get alot younger guy, but All men in thier 40's havent lost their groove, but msn Please keep in my most of us woman in our 40-45 are still young at heart, Chilvary Is Not dead, we go through changes just like the men do with their bodyie! Guys stop blaming the woman for All the mood swings, if it's Not you with mood swings and you still have your sexual drive at 40-50 Great! Men in 40-50's Please Don't go in your shell and hide from us in our 40-45! We al have to let go of our old baggage!