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Sun 07/14/13 08:23 AM

quit wrestling with it!
very Best,

Thank you very much.

this brings on other problems. Where do u find a new woman who will agree to be used only for sex? What if both of u fall in love. then what? where do u meet to have the extramarital sex? What is your family going to think? Are u gonna tell the new woman about your wife? Are u going to feel guilty? Give it lots of thoughts.

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Sun 07/14/13 08:17 AM


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What about sex outside of marriage when there is some other factor. I struggle with it because my wife of thirty years had a stroke five years ago and is now disabled (more than just physically). She no longer knows me other than as her care giver.


Wow.. what happened to your wedding vows?


My wedding vows are intact. That is why I am asking. Is there a time when one partner is no longer able or capable ... Or is the healthy partner to remain celibate for the duration even if it is years.


Dude, it's inappropriate for a widow to re-marry immediately after, much less a husband to consider sex outside the marriage while their souse is still kickin! That's technically cheating if you go through with it. If your vows are still intact, freakin honor them.



I second that!drinker


I don't know. If she now only knows you as her carer and doesn't think of you as her husband it's hard to see how it could possibly bother her. What do you think she would want you to do? I mean, when she was still the woman you married, if you had a conversation about whether it would be alright if this happened to her, what do you think she would have said? Would she have wanted you to be happy and would it make you happy to be with another woman?

A sexless marriage is kind of a marriage in name only.

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Mon 07/08/13 06:05 PM
New to Mingle, female, senior, 74, white, from tn.,interested in meeting age appropriate males for friendship and possible more as time goes on. So far I am meeting guys in their 20, etc. I have nothing in common w/ these boy toys. I have kids age 50!!!!!help thanks

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Sun 07/07/13 01:17 PM
I am a new member and my matches are ages 26,29,33,40,etc. How do I get age appropriate males to try and match up w/???