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online dating hummer I'm just here for the forums .. Humming is nice at the proper time. |
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What are you doing today?
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Tired of nothing already. PinkBubbles I like your way of thinking ...
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SEX: Isn't over-rated?
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Sex is easy to get but love is hard to find . Some people fall in love very easy. Keeping them in love can be a challenge. |
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Trying to find the lost and found. Misplaced my glass slipper...again! 
I think I saw it on the staircase. Maybe a prince will fetch it for you.  
Maybe you will be better off with a pre-prince ... All you need is a pond and lily-pads. And you get free pest control. |
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Long broom flight coming up. Might want to get some oxygen for the high altitude.  that Betts!!! She gets all the men !!
Some of us just want to be taken :-). Please take me!!! 
Eh..sorry Rod....I'm skeered of Betts  
She has not bitten me ... yet  . Besides if she gets too frisky I may be able to run.
She has a mean whack with her broom...you better be fast !! Maybe I will be swept off my feet. |
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Long broom flight coming up. Might want to get some oxygen for the high altitude. that Betts!!! She gets all the men !!
Some of us just want to be taken :-). Please take me!!!
Eh..sorry Rod....I'm skeered of Betts
She has not bitten me ... yet . Besides if she gets too frisky I may be able to run.
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Sex
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Pre-marital sex: Right or wrong? Always right. Nice to see someone sure of themselves. 
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Trying to find the lost and found. Misplaced my glass slipper...again!
I think I saw it on the staircase. Maybe a prince will fetch it for you. |
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Is it Sunday yet? Kissable I think I forgot to wind my calender. It stopped on Sunday. |
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Is it Sunday yet?
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The ability to talk with people and try find a better way to express myself. Maybe to find that at some level I can connect with someone in a meaningful way.
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Sex
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quit wrestling with it! very Best, Thank you very much. this brings on other problems. Where do u find a new woman who will agree to be used only for sex? What if both of u fall in love. then what? where do u meet to have the extramarital sex? What is your family going to think? Are u gonna tell the new woman about your wife? Are u going to feel guilty? Give it lots of thoughts. All good questions. But the first "agreeing to be used only for sex", that is troubling. I think in my case I am looking for more that using someone for sex. I think intimacy, emotional as well as physical, is important to a relationship. Personally, I am upfront about my situation with my wife. I recognize that an intimate relationship can easily evolve into love. Family ... There is often conflict in a family when someone comes in to "replace" someone else. Divorce, death these are a part of life and each person struggles with how to deal with them in their own way. Is one way better than another? Sometimes we react in ways that seem very strange to others. |
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Topic:
What are you doing today?
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Breakfast is done.
Church is done. Dinner is planned. I need to find some time to do nothing ... now seems like a good time. |
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SEX: Isn't over-rated?
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Usually the ones who say sex is overrated are the ones not having sex. This ^. First off how is sex overrated in a relationship? Physical intimacy is as important as emotional intimacy. Furthermore, women want sex just as much as men do. However, if you asked the question, "why is it that men seem to lack good manners now a days vs 30 plus years ago?" that would be a much more legitimate question. Some hold on to old fashioned ideas and end up getting run over by the brash, flashy people that capture a potential mates attention. Old fashioned and steady people end up as good friends (friend zone?). If you want physical intimacy look among those that already provide emotional stability in your life. |
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Long broom flight coming up. Might want to get some oxygen for the high altitude. that Betts!!! She gets all the men !!
Some of us just want to be taken :-). Please take me!!!
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Sex
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quit wrestling with it!
very Best, Thank you very much. |
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Sex
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Some of you are starting to disgust me. But I ask myself why am I surprised. I love it actually...that whole judge not lest he be judged kinda vibe going on in here. I should have brought popcorn. Very 2013!
I don't actually see anyone really condoning rampant sex with anything moving ... although if that is your thing ... fly at it. Most people are talking about a relationship with someone ... not necessarily marriage and not necessarily leading to marriage but a relationship that can be every bit as committed. Some days I just look around and let the circus music play in my head...life's greatest hits! I am still kinda new here. I don't know the ways of Mingle or the people that are here yet. I expected a cross section like what I see outside of the computer. I am not disappointed. I expected to find some that would be of the same mind as you lilredhollyhood and I expected to find others that would be all the way on the other side. I don't really have any arguments yet that are stronger than the one that have been in my head already. The only thing I can suggest is to think if it were your Mom and Dad or brother/sister and their spouse. The physical cost of taking care of someone over a long period of time in tremendous. And sometimes the care taker does not make it out either and in fact may go first. Do you just shrug your shoulders and say well that is the way it should be. Rod, you need to do what is right for you ... not for anyone else. I sent you an email this morning ... not sure if you got it. I did not see an email. I will look again and send you one if that is ok. |
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Sex
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Some of you are starting to disgust me. But I ask myself why am I surprised. I am still kinda new here. I don't know the ways of Mingle or the people that are here yet. I expected a cross section like what I see outside of the computer. I am not disappointed. I expected to find some that would be of the same mind as you lilredhollyhood and I expected to find others that would be all the way on the other side. I don't really have any arguments yet that are stronger than the one that have been in my head already. The only thing I can suggest is to think if it were your Mom and Dad or brother/sister and their spouse. The physical cost of taking care of someone over a long period of time in tremendous. And sometimes the care taker does not make it out either and in fact may go first. Do you just shrug your shoulders and say well that is the way it should be. |
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No, but then sometimes I don't deserve it ... so it all works out.
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Sex
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: What about sex outside of marriage when there is some other factor. I struggle with it because my wife of thirty years had a stroke five years ago and is now disabled (more than just physically). She no longer knows me other than as her care giver. Wow.. what happened to your wedding vows? My wedding vows are intact. That is why I am asking. Is there a time when one partner is no longer able or capable ... Or is the healthy partner to remain celibate for the duration even if it is years. Dude, it's inappropriate for a widow to re-marry immediately after, much less a husband to consider sex outside the marriage while their souse is still kickin! That's technically cheating if you go through with it. If your vows are still intact, freakin honor them. I second that! 
I don't know. If she now only knows you as her carer and doesn't think of you as her husband it's hard to see how it could possibly bother her. What do you think she would want you to do? I mean, when she was still the woman you married, if you had a conversation about whether it would be alright if this happened to her, what do you think she would have said? Would she have wanted you to be happy and would it make you happy to be with another woman? A sexless marriage is kind of a marriage in name only. {{{ I agree with twatstrat }} until you've walked a mile in one's shoes! my friends dad had a head injury when he was a teen, and was on strong medication for many years, leaving him impotent at an early age with no sexual desires. his mother was very acractive and admitted not have a sex life for 10 years and eventually took on a boyfriend that did move inn, in the end. As her husband's health deteriorated rapidly in his late 40s. she honored " til Death shall we part", after years of frustuation and unfulfillment, she looked after herself. she's entitled to a full life as well! her husbands passed, but she has been with the boyfriend for almost 20 years. were only human and we're subject to change! people change, the times change, situations change {{{♥ his name's odd Rod ~ not dead rod ♥ }}} no pun intented to the story~ or was there  
Rod is fine. I have seen and heard these kinds of stories. I have also seen the other side of people looking from the outside in and making their judgement. I know for a few years I had no desire at all. I was busy with recovery and rehabilitation. But there comes a time, when there is no recognition from her of what has been and no chance of rekindling something that was "never there" because she can not recall it and does not have the desire nor capacity to indulge in intimacy in the future ... Is it a falling out of love thing? Am I just bound by the duty and honor thing? Some have suggested that divorce is the proper way to go, still have a hand in her care, but leaving me able to do what I will with my life. That seems harsh. |
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