The first thing women notice is whether or not you are attractive, just like guys do. But, if you are not confident in yourself and continually ask her to make the decisions, then you turn her off and there is no going back. Hint...If a woman looks at you and smiles, and you think she is hot, talk to her. She will be waiting. If you don't.....no confidence and you go to the back of the line. No if her smile is a laugh... that's not a good thing. Unless you told a joke. Just don't be overconfident and act like an ***. It is a fine line, you just have to learn how to walk it.