Its a tough one. We put alot of pressure on ourselves as people, as Christians.
When we fall madly in love, it is hard to not let a simple kiss turn into something more- it seems so natural to take the next step, when your madly in love. but then if the couple isnt compatible, then they have made themselves unpure for their next partner, perhaps...
I also think waiting has its merits and benefits. I think if the couple waits till the wedding day, and it turns out they are very compatible, well that will crown the night off perfectly- best day of their lives and worth the wait.
Either follow Gods word or your own, i guess it is not a bad a sin as the things we see on the news etc.

Any good Christian Women looking to connect?