Then don't ask people what you think...

No hard feelings. You said you wanted people to "give it to you"... so i did.

Okay... You asked for it.

First, when you post pictures of yourself you need to take into account the actual clothing you are posing in. If you are posing to impress...
and first impressions are important, especially for woman since we are very visual. Do NOT tuck in a tee-shirt with jeans and please do not wear a belt to "dress it up". You need to look in men's magazines and get some ideas. You have all the time in the world to show your casual side... but not on Mingle2! Now is your time to shine!

Second, women look at more than just the person in the photo. A woman looks at the room and what's behind the person. She asks herself..."hmmm, could i feel comfortable in a room with a blanket as a curtain and a KISS poster above the twin bed????" You might want to concider a more "adult" background.

Third, I suggest taking some time to pose showing the romantic inside. How attached are you to KISS? (don't get me wrong...they are a kick ass band and i loved them growning up).

I don't know, I'm not a professional... Heck, I'm using the website too! lol And have you seen my pictures? I should practice what i preach...lol

But, if my thoughts help you, then great!

I'm just a california lesbian...

Good Luck!... and i look forward to seeing your new pictures.