First off! We must first get a true understanding as to what sex was given to mankind for, and once that understanding has been gained, then use sex for it's original and only purpose, which is to procreate and to bond husband and wife together, for their life span. Sex is a spiritual gift that bonds a man and woman together, but it's use is for a committed husband and wife, not just for a man and woman to enjoy sexual pleasure. Committing this act outside of wedlock is fornication, which means, you are creating multiple soul ties with different partners, and once the sexual act is committed, you are joined to every person you have had sex with, and the other people your partner has had sexual encounters with. That is why I no longer have sex, and want to experience the gift with the woman in whom I'll spend the rest of my life with.