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Sun 06/30/13 04:22 PM

hi...! I think this sites r meet d people each other...! they know each other...! love care friendship understanding....! love u all <3


awwww! love u too <3

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Sun 06/30/13 04:20 PM


What really drove you to online dating?

You act like it is someone's last resort.
It's a tool, to expand your horizons.
To meet people outside (or not) your comfort zone.
To share ideas.
Maybe meet someone special.

It is a jump to a bigger pond, from a smaller one.
Hang with more fish.
Learn stuff.




Awww, ur so right. I like that .

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Sun 06/30/13 04:11 PM


They normally have more choice in who to date, so maybe, but remember, just because someone may be good-looking, it doesn't mean they're not a settling down type.


I beg to differ...I don't thank they have many choices in dating, I'm cute and I found it very hard...up until now that is, before hawt mess a serious hawt mess! It was extremely difficult to weed through the sleaze to get to the real. Beautiful people (skin deep people) on the other hand may have an even tougher time at it because they have to wonder is this person after their heart or if this person wants a trophy piece.

settling down that's another story!



Well said. I can identify with everything u said.

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Sun 06/30/13 03:51 PM
Edited by SperenzaSutton on Sun 06/30/13 03:53 PM

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Sun 06/30/13 03:51 PM



if this is the right person, your soul mate, you can not get elsewhere, and this is valid for the beautiful people like the least beautiful :wink:


What if 'your soul mate' is ugly to u, is it possible to still love them and hate their face?

Wasn't it Shakespeare or Christopher Marlowe who said;

"Who ever loved that loved not at first sight?"


Can't even fathom that someone would see their "soulmate" as ugly.



Ok here's an example: We're all here talking, I met this guy who's the perfect match, the perfect everything, we talk on the phone we have so much in common, we can talk about everything, I have 'his picture' on my phone, all on my facebook. I'm so totally in sync with this guy and then when i mention Skype he tells me he has a 10000km road to build in Africa and he's being transferred there immediately as he's the senior engineer in his company,.....I find this suspicious so I question him and he comes clean, he's really an African in Africa and the handsome pic i fell in love with is his neighbor. 'Wtf' i'm like shocked... I thought i loved the guy, he was the one BUT the "so called real" picture of him i can't handle. I'm in love with the neighbor's smile, and skin tone, and the way he stands, etc and the personality of the 'fraud'

Where does that leave me? Building a road in Africa?

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Sun 06/30/13 03:37 PM


Or should that be; Is it harder for beautiful people to keep that special someone?




I think it's harder. Beautiful women sometimes sit at home because the guys are too afraid she's 'out of their league' to date.



Finally, someone who answered the question. You are sooo right, but why is that? Why are most men so intimidated by beauty? What's so scary about it?

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Sun 06/30/13 03:16 PM
Edited by SperenzaSutton on Sun 06/30/13 03:22 PM

if this is the right person, your soul mate, you can not get elsewhere, and this is valid for the beautiful people like the least beautiful :wink:


What if 'your soul mate' is ugly to u, is it possible to still love them and hate their face?

Wasn't it Shakespeare or Christopher Marlowe who said;

"Who ever loved that loved not at first sight?"

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Sun 06/30/13 01:32 PM
Edited by SperenzaSutton on Sun 06/30/13 01:40 PM

Hi SS

Well you might get a lot of hate mail till people get what your saying and can identify with it. Maybe if you tie beauty with different types of professions or celeb status or $$$ it might be easier to talk about.

The standards of beauty were set a long time ago and people who (however they get there) fall into this type (stereotype) do get treated differently and it can be a good thing and a bad thing.

Most of the problem though comes from their own view of themselves. If they give off arrogance that's going to limit their ability to deal with a real life relationship. It shouldn't be but people are intimidated by what the public perceives as "in". This is why if you are a person who has that certain something should be even more earthy in your approach to others who may be looking at you as different for whatever reason.

But we all should hold hands and watch "Shallow Hal" together, cause I think we all do this at some level.

one other thing I do want to add

No matter how hot we think we are on the outside, more than likely we were born ugly and will die ugly. If you have a period that you feel you are within the envelope of the most desired prepare yourself cause your going to have to deal with the fall of your own ego's head trip.










Hmmm, Thank u for ur response. Seems to me beautiful people have a lot on there plates. Wow! So much is expected of them. I can understand why most are forced to be ugly on the inside.
They aren't given a fare break at all.


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Sun 06/30/13 01:25 PM
Edited by SperenzaSutton on Sun 06/30/13 01:37 PM
@ Mg1959

Hate mail? Can't faze me. i'm just to shallow.

Right Boo?

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Sun 06/30/13 12:05 PM

I honestly don't care if I find anyone on here. I was mostly curious as to what kind of people I would find on this site and if I would find any fakers/scammers as I usually seem to find them easily on these sites. It's like they're drawn to me. They look at my picture and think "He might be desperate enough to do something stupid." Then I play with them for a while and piss them off and hopefully get them removed.

It's all part of my evil plan to not take over the world. hahaha



Wow! What the hell. hahaha.


Sperenza Sutton Quotes: "Wisdom and Evil are cousins while Contentment and Love are sisters."

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Sun 06/30/13 12:00 PM

Beautiful people have to make more desiscions than ugly people.


lol!

@ Kik2me is that so?

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Sun 06/30/13 11:58 AM

Who the HELL you calling BEAUTIFUL ?

rofl



Ahhh, Try reading the topic again. I think u lost the point somewhere between being an idiot and just being plain dumb.

Everyone here is beautiful, aren't u? I see u have issues posting a picture of yourself but I promise u, none of these fine, beautiful people here won't dare laugh if u do.

Sincerely

SS

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Sun 06/30/13 11:53 AM

Possibly. If you can play pick and choose, then it could be harder to settle for just one person.

Kinda like clothing. Would you wear the same thing every day?



Well, of course I can't wear the same thing everyday, can't even wear the same thing twice if its not washed but I doubt u can compare a relationship to the use of your wardrobe seeing that as a decent woman u don't want a different man inside u ever day. (If u get where I'm coming from. Not even every month/ year in my case.

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Sun 06/30/13 07:46 AM
Or should that be; Is it harder for beautiful people to keep that special someone?

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Sun 06/30/13 07:42 AM
I personally came looking because of a heartbreak. I guess I did not want to give up all faith in men completely

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Tue 06/25/13 06:19 PM
Edited by SperenzaSutton on Tue 06/25/13 06:21 PM
Hmmmmmm, Smiling, is it the "dicky-cool-off "part?


Its the new phrase I'm using for guys who are seeking an 'intimate' encounter.

Aww Thanks, these flowers are beautiful, give me a sec' let me put them in some water on my desk. Cute and Sweet thank u both

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Tue 06/25/13 02:32 PM
Hi, Honestly, what's up with some of these fakes? Why come on a dating site to make friends etc... when you have intentions on being an *** or a fraud?
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Hi Guys, I'm SperenzaSutton & Co. (right ladies?)If you are serious about meeting a serious, real woman, and you are not afraid to call etc.... Please, feel free to sign up below with a reply post.


Fakers and losers who have no respect for ladies, or who are looking for a dicky-cool-off need not apply.

Thank You!

SS

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Tue 06/25/13 02:16 PM
Dove Bear... So young and so wise.

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Tue 06/25/13 09:23 AM
The Vow!

Question: So If the reasons to honor the vow one makes before Almighty God are "changing with the times" where do you see marriage going in the future. Also, What does the Bible say about honoring/breaking vows to God and Obedience to God compared to our own Sacrifice?


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Tue 06/25/13 08:54 AM
Hello All!

I've noticed that many scientist do not believe in God for some 'logical' reason or the other. So my question is merely this;

If the 'reality' that God is real is a mere illusion who is 'actually' (as "actuality" is what actually is) the creator of the universe?


Who is the eternal parent of the spirit? Who is that bigger energy source that all of existence (as we are all smaller energy fields)are connected to?


Also; What's your take on 'The Law of Attraction' and the power of the mind/thoughts, where it states that we are creating our own personal universe as we go along by virtue of our thoughts?

Is it possible then that we can all "actually" be mere thoughts/"realities" in the mind of the Supreme Being?


SS