What's stopping from getting the man you want. Look around us, a man wanted a a house he built ine, he wanted a car, he built one. What ever he wanted he could and can build. But relationship, he has failed to build, relationship begins with God, he is the author and finished of relationships. If you don't have one, or if you have failed in one, it means you lack a relationship with owner of relationships. You need God first, and a relationship with Him, teaches you the meaning of forgiving, loving, caring, listening, understanding, u name them. Open you heart and mind, let your spirit decide not your flesh, listen to your conscience for once and meditate on these words. I need to have a relationship with God, before I have a relationship with any one else.