I think a site such as Mingles2 should have options given to their members to either be able to delete their hole entire account instead of just only being able to deactivate their account. I also think ppl whom joins any personal site or just any site should have the right to choose weather or not they want to delete their account all together or just deactivate it. I give this site (Mingles2) an "F" for not having giving us the ppl whom join your site the options and let us members decide for ourselves weather we want to just deactivate our account or delete it period! You talk about "Upgrading Your Account" well I think its time you look at your on website or service that you offer and do a little "Upgrading" of your own b/c quite frankly ya'll fail on just giving us one option and trapping us like that! So I'd tell whom ever I could if a site don't have a "cancel membership" option and only a "deactivate" option "DO NOT JOIN!"