I think the times they are a changing... aids helped a bit killed of lots of promiscious people...
A one night stand is desperate in most cases, ( Control yourself dammit) we are not alley cats OR STRAY DOGS !! Lets face it. A one nighter is just a 'glorified wank'... why loose a bit of cred and SELF respect because you can't control your self? Then there is the other Question, how many other one nighters has this person had before you came along ? No I say... save it for your special person or spouse... what are you going to say once you do finally settle down with a nice wholsome person, marry or whatever, if they ask you about how many one nighters you have had?? & they will... Tell the truth, and seem like immature sex freak or lie to one you should never lie to ... your partner!! think about it!!