Hi all,
Lots of good ideas shared.
I think before any kind of sexual activity takes place there has to be some sense of a relationship or connectedness. This might develop or it might not. It might develop over a few hours or days, weeks...........
For me it has been so long I'm not sure how things might work out but I think that within a relationship things would flow naturally.
I agree with the idea of what constitutes sex is down to the participants and again part of the relationship.
I wouldn't want to leap on a woman any more than I would want her to leap on me.
Let's get that relationship first !