Well, partially not that secret any more. Busy copy 'n' pasting stuff into a neat fine fun file right now …

I can see your 1 pic and bio ("Hypergamy is my middle name so am a fun loving person who like to be spoilt rotten. [...])

But actually I wonder if you wouldn't be better off if it were not visible (no offence). But may be I am just too conservative — who would have ever thought that of me, ...

The fact that she cares for the kids speaks for her. It is rather the fact she does so without the father that raises concerns:

Where is he and why is he not with her? Of course, there are bad guys who simply dump a girl when she is pregnant with their child.

But don't some guys also flee from the lady because she is constantly bickering, causing problems, not being cooperative?

And: are all the kids from the same father? Or did she never learn to improve her judgement of guys, and each and every kid has a different father?

Well, the internal alarm sounds off for sure.
And I know that for many, kids from a different father are a no-go.

Things may be different if she is a widow, though.
As there is no question she has no fault in that case (except if she made herself a widow, secretly )