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Fri 07/25/08 08:12 PM
ive been looking from ages 25 to 38 and they all fighure im to old even though they themselves cant hardly keep up. and iv lived in Miss. for 16 years, came here from California i would go back but i couldnt leave my girls here with their mother she has primary custody

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Fri 07/25/08 08:06 PM
i was married for 21 years and now divorced and the dating scene has really changed. i am always myself and honest. i am not really into bars. im 6'3" 250 lbs and in good shape work out everyday. im 50 but look a young 40. just most of the women i see close to my age cant keep up with me.i guess im still young at heart and show it by all the things i like to do. i dont play games and would love to make some new friends and who knows maybe one of them might be the one. im just not use to asking a female out and havent been on a real date for 21 years.... HELP

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Sun 07/13/08 08:37 PM
i posted another chat on what i reall enjoy check it out.... later

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Sun 07/13/08 08:34 PM

I am prepared!
i love fried chicken lol

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Sun 07/13/08 08:30 PM

Well the forums can be a good way to "break the ice" this just wasn't the best topic to start off with. Try crusin the forums & hop into something that interests you, or start something about your interests.
great idea ty

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Sun 07/13/08 08:29 PM


brave man to be on a publicly posted "dating" site while in the middle of a divorce???


Why is that...I have been seperated for over 3 years and am here......my profile says looking for friends..if you cant have friends first then nothing else can come after that. I post in the forums for friends and fun...havent asked anyone to date/marry me as of yet!
i agree i wants friends first then if it happens great and if not then i still make a good friend

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Sun 07/13/08 08:26 PM
and besides i havent spent all this time bulding my own business to have a gold digger, lier, or anyone else tear it down

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Sun 07/13/08 08:23 PM


thanks to one and all for your time and imput. you seem to be good people. thank you



You are quiet welcome. You ought ti know what some of my Friends have been through with people they have met on the internet... From ripping them off money-wise, to building them up to think they had found Mr. Right, only to find out they were being "Scammed" for what they could least afford to waste.... Their Love and Trust...

You will just have to build their Trust first...

Good Luck

>>>>Our Creator must want us to Laugh.... Else HE wouldn't have made it FEEL Sooooo..... GOOD...!! May HE smile on you!<<<<
yea there are a lot of dishonest people on here. i just do not like the bars or dives i thought this might be easier to break the ice. i wonder now

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Sun 07/13/08 08:18 PM

brave man to be on a publicly posted "dating" site while in the middle of a divorce???
why she has been out to who knows where since fri. cant even contact her if something happen to one of the girl. over is over we had both agreed

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Sun 07/13/08 08:11 PM

Just a question.....why are you here ? i mean on this dating site..You said you never cheated in 21 years but your profile says your separated...
my divorce is almost final

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Sun 07/13/08 07:54 PM




I ALWAYS TREATED MY EX WIFE LIKE A QUEEN. NEVER ASK HER TO ANYTHING FOR ME I CAN DO FOR MYSELF. I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LOVE AND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO RETURN LOVE.


That is what everyone deserves. I hope you find it.
thank you



I don't want to sound like a smart-alec, but these wonderful Ladies here will respond better to a kind word than they will to bitterness...

Most of them have been "Through the Mill" and carry memories in their heart that I don't believe many men could stand up to...

They certainly have my admiration...

Try and work on smiling and laughing, I know it's hard to do, but I've been there/done that ...

Keep your chin up!!

(I'm just North of you)
yea i know i am going to move on and up

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Sun 07/13/08 07:52 PM
there is a quote that says "once my trust was broken, my heart torn apart how do i rebuild it, only time will heal the mortal wounds inflisted by others we love"

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Sun 07/13/08 07:45 PM




I don't lie or cheat & I pride myself for that!! I have been cheated on & it would be unfair for me to make the next women pay for last ones mistake. So I believe there are some faithful ones!!



This is exactly what I am trying to avoid. Making anyone pay for the past ones mistakes.
you are 100% correct








It's not easy!! Once trust has been broken, you will always have it in the back of your mind!!

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Sun 07/13/08 07:43 PM
thanks to one and all for your time and imput. you seem to be good people. thank you

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Sun 07/13/08 07:40 PM





The invisable hen asks once again, "how long have you been seperated"?
i dont talk to pictures of farm animals


ha ha ha not very long huh?
YES I HAVE MRS HEN A GOOD WHILE AND LONG BEFORE THAT I WAS ALONE WHEN SHE THOUGHT BARS AND ALCHOL WAS MOR IMPORTANT THAN ME AND OUR 3 DAUGHTERS


Yes waiting on your mate to come home is not a good feeling but look it sounds if you raised your daughters so who is really the winner here you are. Hang in there it get's easier with time.
Never give up hope there are still women out there who values a good man and love and familyflowerforyou
thank you. i try to raise my girls up good with values and morals. they would rather be with me than their mother. i try to give them everything they need. they are my world..smile2

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Sun 07/13/08 07:34 PM


I ALWAYS TREATED MY EX WIFE LIKE A QUEEN. NEVER ASK HER TO ANYTHING FOR ME I CAN DO FOR MYSELF. I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LOVE AND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO RETURN LOVE.


That is what everyone deserves. I hope you find it.
thank you

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Sun 07/13/08 07:33 PM

Know what, you're probably the 109293th guy to start a topic like this 'where are all the good women gone' - and the same answers get tossed around each time.

There are GREAT men and women everywhere, but it's going to take more than a handful of posts on a new board to find the one that's right for you. Ranting and raving about how you were 'done wrong' is never really a drawing card for the opposite sex.

You're frustrated and hurt, we've all been there and it sucks - no one is denying that. Just keep in mind that every faithful, loving, caring female who reads your posts is looking for a man who is in a positive, open and receptive frame of mind, or he won't be able to see her over his bitterness.

Good luck and try to be patient - with yourself and the women you'll come across.
thanks you are a sweet person. life goes on i just wanted to know if others see some the way i do

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Sun 07/13/08 07:28 PM

Umm Roger?? Why are you yelling??
sorry didnt realize i was on caps

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Sun 07/13/08 07:28 PM
I ALWAYS TREATED MY EX WIFE LIKE A QUEEN. NEVER ASK HER TO ANYTHING FOR ME I CAN DO FOR MYSELF. I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LOVE AND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO RETURN LOVE.

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Sun 07/13/08 07:23 PM




I thought that was one of my worsest qualities
being faithfull
I thought men would not appreciate it
I can see you do
Well me ....I always been faithfull you know why.....because I fall in love so my partner could be important in my life.

where have you been all my life
sometimes we need to walk the dessert so we can appreciate when we reach to the beach.....got it?:wink:
YES I NEED TO FIND THAT BEACH QUICK