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Thu 03/21/13 06:38 PM


Some people put their best foot forward and watch their manners when first going out.

They just can't maintain it because they are simply rotten inside.

yeah that is true for sure.


Another thought: maybe the partner catches the "MINE MINE MINE" super protective disease. And of course if the friend has really fallen emotionally under the influence for that partner, likely that friend will be easily persuaded to shun previous friendships in order to keep partner happy and quiet

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Thu 03/21/13 05:51 PM
Jasmine rice, peas, alligator sirloin again love

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Thu 03/21/13 05:21 PM


I have seen people call into work sick for the day then post themselves on social networks out doing whatever activities- clearly not sick- all the while forgetting that their boss is on their friend list


DON'T WARN MY EMPLOYEES!!!

I Really have a good crew that enjoys their Work; as long as I get a Fair Head's Up for a Desired Day Off, I'll do what I can.


Soooo where can I send my resumé?

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Thu 03/21/13 01:23 PM
Jasmine rice, sweet peas, alligator sirloin

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Thu 03/21/13 01:21 PM


Coercion would be a good implementation here to gather volunteers!!!


BYOI (insulin)?:tongue:


Hahah hooooow about you bring the insulin and the chocolate- not to be picky but I really enjoy twix! laugh

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Thu 03/21/13 01:10 PM


Such as What month were you born
What movies were made the year you were born
What other socials are you a member in....
Etc ?
Careful what you throw answers to out there !

noway


I’m an adventurer if nothing else, so let’s test your theory!

Crystal Blue Persuasion was released the year I was born.
My lucky number is 3.
My favorite color is orange.
My favorite food is an orange.
My dog’s name is Greta Garbo. Thought I was gonna say orange didn’t ya?:wink:
My cat’s name is Christopher Columbus.

I DARE someone to try and scam me! smokin



Challenge accepted!!:tongue:

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Thu 03/21/13 12:43 PM
Coercion would be a good implementation here to gather volunteers!!!

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Thu 03/21/13 12:21 PM
I have seen people call into work sick for the day then post themselves on social networks out doing whatever activities- clearly not sick- all the while forgetting that their boss is on their friend list

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Thu 03/21/13 12:13 PM
Spongebob, I suppose that counts as a television show blushing

Still my favorite to this day

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Thu 03/21/13 12:07 PM


I have noticed this so many times when people get into a relationship.
Some become very mellow and seem happier and nicer than ever. That I can I understand, It is when they claim to be so in love and yet they become mean and nasty to others including people that once were their friends. My only guess is either they are not as happy as they say they are or Jealousy has reared its ugly head.
What are your thoughts?


I have experienced this myself. But don't dispair, because after years of research, I believe I've come up with a fool proof solution to prevent this from happening to us ever again.

My research notes:
The euphoric high you experience when falling in love is comparable to the endorphin high experience when eating chocolate.

My plan: After the “honeymoon phase” is over, feed him a steady diet of chocolate.biggrin



Hahahah make sure you have a supply of insulin handy!

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Thu 03/21/13 10:59 AM
Edited by Zdzd657 on Thu 03/21/13 10:59 AM


I would take it in stride, every situation is specific to those involved. There are some friendships that I have let go of because of that intuitive gut feeling.... Usually though, if you love that friend and you treasure what you did have previously and both sides can pick up from where it was left off like it never happened.. Certainly.

I would weigh it out when/if the time comes and go with how you feel. Mainly the question I ask myself is: "can I live MY life without that person in it?"

I see your point, but what if the reason they are not being friends with you anymore is simply because the person they are now involved with does not like you?


1. Either they are blinded by one of those "so deep into a situation, that they cannot see what they really doing to loved ones around them"

2. That they really do not care.

Hoping that 1 would be the actual reason, there is really not much you can do at that point. Everyone has their own right to practice autonomy and if that is their choice in the moment to choose partner over friend, that is their choice. You can either deal with it, leave it, respect it, or dig further into WHY that partner does not like you

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Thu 03/21/13 10:53 AM
Agreed! The benefits far outweigh the negatives! Could not imagine the life of those without

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Thu 03/21/13 10:47 AM
I would take it in stride, every situation is specific to those involved. There are some friendships that I have let go of because of that intuitive gut feeling.... Usually though, if you love that friend and you treasure what you did have previously and both sides can pick up from where it was left off like it never happened.. Certainly.

I would weigh it out when/if the time comes and go with how you feel. Mainly the question I ask myself is: "can I live MY life without that person in it?"

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Thu 03/21/13 10:36 AM
That is one negative consequence for having a big heart, more times than not, for me open arms are always given to a long lost friend, no matter the cause for the initial loss

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Thu 03/21/13 10:06 AM
Lol weird how that happens, but then when that relationship ends, who wants to be best friends again?!

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Thu 03/21/13 10:04 AM
Raid

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Thu 03/21/13 10:03 AM
Thinking of what I want to do this weekend..

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Thu 03/21/13 09:53 AM
Road

I suppose editing will be allowed.. :smile:

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Thu 03/21/13 09:51 AM
I have seen many of relationships end because of the same issue... I will always stay true to my friends.

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Thu 03/21/13 09:43 AM
Odor