Gorgeous photo, Imb3! (you should lose the veil though -&- add more photos)
did you forget your marital status??
I definitely agree w/ 'ujGearhead', description needs more info)
I rarely spend any time here (or on the other dating sites either) and not sure why I am here today ... I understand about the terrified part! but, it's no good being alone either - so you gotta start somewhere... guess that's why I decided to start with the forums (your lucky day!)
take Care and Best wishes!