Wow.. Quite a predicament you're in.. First of all regardless of what you decide to do, you need time to sort out your thoughts first. So not being together right now is probably the better option.

I have seen so many people stay together for the kids. This is a 50/50 gamble. One of two things will happen. You will get along fine or you will not. But why put the kids through this storm you're weathering? Granted, kids are very resilient, but I have seen some of them hurt in such a way that will leave a scar forever.

First of all, she was a drug addicted who cheated on you. There will definitely be a trust factor there. She would have to earn your trust back. The question is, are you both prepared to do what it takes to make it work? In this case it would be exhausting trying to find what you had before all of the insanity. The problem is, will you ever see her in the same way?

The only person that knows for sure what you should do is you. You said it yourself. You want to be single for a while. So do it. Give yourself a chance to clear your head.

One thin you could do is make a list of pros and cons. Which would out weigh the other?

If you do not want to be with her anymore, but stay with her because of the kid, then you will be unhappy. And that isn't healthy for you, your child, or the other party.

You have a lot to think about. Try to step back and see the whole picture. There isn't a time frame in which this can be done. Take your time. And when you're ready to make a decision, you will know. It takes time. You're definitely not in a position to make that decision now.. Good luck..

Even though you think she does need you,do you think you can start a new relationship without trust?What is done is done...All you can do is be there for your child now

honestly imo.... its to hard to get back with someone when they do you wrong cuz you will always have it in the back of your head. difference is you have a child together.... she needs both of you at the same time... toughy