This is a very controversial subject that has both pros and cons. I really feel no remorse for someone like Jeffrey Dahmer or Charles Manson. These people are not of this world. Just pure evil. The punishment should fit the crime. Lethal injection is definitely the way to go. I do not know about you, but I want people like this to die as quickly as possible so they will no longer be a treat to our society.

However, what would you do if you were faced with this decision about a family member or close friend?

We have several on death row that are innocent. They are incapable of proving their innocence because of the lack of evidence, facts, and witnesses. They were just at the wrong place at the wrong time.

Our judicial system is so flawed. Justice isn't always served appropriately due to the lack of hard evidence. I vote for improving our system to reduce the amount of innocent people in our prisons and to reduce the amount of criminals that go free because of what we call "reasonable doubt." Until then, it will be next to impossible for me to give a definitive answer either way.

I agree to a point. It is more complex. However it's all in how you look at it. You can make it as complex or as simplistic as you want. So many people complicate things that shouldn't be so abstruse. I prefer to be unpretentious about relationships. I have yet to find someone that shares the same viewpoint wholeheartedly. Situations do not complicate things, people do.

I agree with posts ^ me. Tell him how you feel. After losing a loved one you will never completely get over it. But his legacy will still continue because you carry him in your heart. I know it's easier said than done, but it's best to focus on the positive memories you had with him. Be thankful that you had the chance to know him while he was here. And know that no one really dies. They just transform into their spiritual being. Also it isn't the end. One of these days (hopefully many years down the road), you will see him again on the other side. I hope you find the strength to get through this.

Thanks. But it's true. There isn't such thing as perfection. But if you can see an imperfect person perfectly, then you have a fighting chance. We live in a very cynical world. But if you make an extra effort, anything is possibile.

Thank you.. And I'm not seraching for a perfect person. It's about seeing an imperfect person perfectly!

I don't think I am necessarily destined to be alone. But it's really difficult to find the person that compliments everything about you. When you do find it and it's mutual, make sure you hold onto it. Because it's very rare.

Read my profile.. Enough said!

Yes I believe in the possibility. I haven't REALLY found mine yet, but I do not completely rule it out. I thought I found my soulmate. But when it isn't reciprocated then you have to wonder if they are it. When you have so much in common that it's scary, you have to wonder if you have found it. So do you give up or keep moving on? Love knows no logic or reasoning. It just is.. If only they could see and feel through your eyes and heart, then they would know. I'm just going to let go of all expectation. Because when you expect nothing in return, you will be less likely to have disappointment. Love works in mysterious ways.

I do agree that if you do not like this site, then why waste your time posting about it? Just deactivate and move on. I know who you are talking about. So in a sense I totally agree with you. I was making a generalization in my statement above.

You do make somewhat of a point here. However there are always going to be people on here that have a bad day and need support of their friends. And if you judge them based on that then you're just shallow. I'm not say you are shallow, I'm just simply implying that you cannot judge someone based on the fact that they are having a difficult time. What if you have one of them days that you feel helpless and need a friend to talk to? If you judge others on this, most likely when you need someone they will not be there. Careful what you choose to say. Keep up that attitude and see where it gets you in life.

On the other hand, if someone does nothing but whine all of the time then that is somewhat annoying. This is why I see your point. But do not judge others based on their imperfections. No one is perfect.

Thank you for your kind words!

Well I pose this question to you Lee. What if you do take a chance? What if when you take that chance you are rejected? But you're so out of your mind in love with this person that it's difficult to see beyond the hope that just what if? Answer me what you do when you feel helpless and there isn't anything you can do about it. What do you do then?

Don't you hate it when you're broke down on the side of the road and someone comes up to & says, "Hi! Are you having car trouble?" Ummmm no... I'm just standing here looking under the hood of my car for my health.. sheesh...

You know you're getting old when...

You try to white out your spelling mistakes on the computer screen..

When you eat a banana for breakfest, throw your keys in the trash, and walk out with the banana peel.

When coffee regular takes on a whole new meaning..

umm.. Not so much!

Laughter can make anything bearable!

exactly!

Are you gay? That was my #1 question. If people would just read my profile... I swear no one pervs you anymore before asking questions.

Yes they can work. It really depends on the person. I know if I found the right person I could definitely handle it. I would probably eventually move closer so I could get to know them in person.

But some people do not have the patience for what it takes.

Captain and coke on the rocks please, thanks..

Oh yeah.. And I cannot forget the Columbian Gold please..