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Sat 07/26/08 03:56 PM
This is a very controversial subject that has both pros and cons. I really feel no remorse for someone like Jeffrey Dahmer or Charles Manson. These people are not of this world. Just pure evil. The punishment should fit the crime. Lethal injection is definitely the way to go. I do not know about you, but I want people like this to die as quickly as possible so they will no longer be a treat to our society.

However, what would you do if you were faced with this decision about a family member or close friend?

We have several on death row that are innocent. They are incapable of proving their innocence because of the lack of evidence, facts, and witnesses. They were just at the wrong place at the wrong time.

Our judicial system is so flawed. Justice isn't always served appropriately due to the lack of hard evidence. I vote for improving our system to reduce the amount of innocent people in our prisons and to reduce the amount of criminals that go free because of what we call "reasonable doubt." Until then, it will be next to impossible for me to give a definitive answer either way.

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Sat 07/26/08 12:30 PM




Yes, I'm afraid it is. Why? Probably because it's the total opposit of what I want, and that's usually what I end up with.
ohwell grumble


exactly.


Your young, thin and beautiful, there is still plenty of hope for you.


all due respect
(and hoping you offer me the same)
it's a bit more complex than that.


I agree to a point. It is more complex. However it's all in how you look at it. You can make it as complex or as simplistic as you want. So many people complicate things that shouldn't be so abstruse. I prefer to be unpretentious about relationships. I have yet to find someone that shares the same viewpoint wholeheartedly. Situations do not complicate things, people do. flowerforyou

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Sat 07/26/08 11:34 AM
I agree with posts ^ me. Tell him how you feel. After losing a loved one you will never completely get over it. But his legacy will still continue because you carry him in your heart. I know it's easier said than done, but it's best to focus on the positive memories you had with him. Be thankful that you had the chance to know him while he was here. And know that no one really dies. They just transform into their spiritual being. Also it isn't the end. One of these days (hopefully many years down the road), you will see him again on the other side. I hope you find the strength to get through this. flowerforyou

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Sat 07/26/08 01:00 AM




I don't think I am necessarily destined to be alone. But it's really difficult to find the person that compliments everything about you. When you do find it and it's mutual, make sure you hold onto it. Because it's very rare.


Ya know...the more I think about it...

It may not be really possible to find someone who " compliments everything about you " at all.

I totally understand people's unwillingness to " settle " for less than what they really want, but at the same time, I think it's completely unrealistic to think that you are going to find someone who is perfect for you in every way.

I sincerely wish you luck Amathyst, but I am afraid that the pursuit of the " perfect person " is pretty much an excercise in futility.

I think the thing to do is try to find someone who has the things that compliment you in a much higher ratio than the things you find detrimental.

Everyone is going to have faults or foibles that someone finds irritating. Perfection ( even if it means perfect for someone ) is an unnattainable goal that has chewed up an awful lot of good people.
JMHO, of course.



Thank you.. And I'm not seraching for a perfect person. It's about seeing an imperfect person perfectly! :smile:


Now THAT....was a perfect answer. Well said. flowers


Thanks. But it's true. There isn't such thing as perfection. But if you can see an imperfect person perfectly, then you have a fighting chance. We live in a very cynical world. But if you make an extra effort, anything is possibile.

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Sat 07/26/08 12:46 AM


I don't think I am necessarily destined to be alone. But it's really difficult to find the person that compliments everything about you. When you do find it and it's mutual, make sure you hold onto it. Because it's very rare.


Ya know...the more I think about it...

It may not be really possible to find someone who " compliments everything about you " at all.

I totally understand people's unwillingness to " settle " for less than what they really want, but at the same time, I think it's completely unrealistic to think that you are going to find someone who is perfect for you in every way.

I sincerely wish you luck Amathyst, but I am afraid that the pursuit of the " perfect person " is pretty much an excercise in futility.

I think the thing to do is try to find someone who has the things that compliment you in a much higher ratio than the things you find detrimental.

Everyone is going to have faults or foibles that someone finds irritating. Perfection ( even if it means perfect for someone ) is an unnattainable goal that has chewed up an awful lot of good people.
JMHO, of course.



Thank you.. And I'm not seraching for a perfect person. It's about seeing an imperfect person perfectly! :smile:

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Sat 07/26/08 12:33 AM
I don't think I am necessarily destined to be alone. But it's really difficult to find the person that compliments everything about you. When you do find it and it's mutual, make sure you hold onto it. Because it's very rare.

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Fri 07/25/08 11:54 PM
Edited by Amathyst2 on Fri 07/25/08 11:56 PM
Read my profile.. Enough said!

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Fri 07/25/08 11:37 PM
Yes I believe in the possibility. I haven't REALLY found mine yet, but I do not completely rule it out. I thought I found my soulmate. But when it isn't reciprocated then you have to wonder if they are it. When you have so much in common that it's scary, you have to wonder if you have found it. So do you give up or keep moving on? Love knows no logic or reasoning. It just is.. If only they could see and feel through your eyes and heart, then they would know. I'm just going to let go of all expectation. Because when you expect nothing in return, you will be less likely to have disappointment. Love works in mysterious ways.

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Fri 07/25/08 11:21 PM

while i agree with you.. i have one thing to comment....

we all judge based on imperfections as well as the perfections and the whole package.. and the whole package includes those imperfections...
unless you meant on imperfections alone.. which makes more sence now that i think about it...


thing is... the person in question here.. has posted the same thread repetedly... not bothering to read/head any of the advice that has been offered to him... and 7 out of 10 (yes i really did count.. i was bored) of his threads are "this site sucks" threads.....

if this site sucks so much.. then dont use it..

if this were just a one or 2 day thing.. ok.. but this has been every thread since i noticed this person on here months ago..


and at least 70% of their posts...

this site is what you make it.. and oh so much like real life..
you have to be patient... (not my strong suit).....
flowerforyou


I do agree that if you do not like this site, then why waste your time posting about it? Just deactivate and move on. I know who you are talking about. So in a sense I totally agree with you. I was making a generalization in my statement above. flowerforyou

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Fri 07/25/08 10:56 PM

sorry.. point in my rant..

this site is what you make of it..

if you go around whining.. then noone will give you the time of day..

you go around being who you are.....

and people will notice you....

unless you are a whiner. lol

then your screwed!
hahaha



You do make somewhat of a point here. However there are always going to be people on here that have a bad day and need support of their friends. And if you judge them based on that then you're just shallow. I'm not say you are shallow, I'm just simply implying that you cannot judge someone based on the fact that they are having a difficult time. What if you have one of them days that you feel helpless and need a friend to talk to? If you judge others on this, most likely when you need someone they will not be there. Careful what you choose to say. Keep up that attitude and see where it gets you in life.

On the other hand, if someone does nothing but whine all of the time then that is somewhat annoying. This is why I see your point. But do not judge others based on their imperfections. No one is perfect.

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Fri 07/25/08 10:47 PM

Sweetie... you must take that risk.

You broke my heart, but I still believe in love.

Besides, if you're rejected..... I'd say you deserve better anyway.

Much Love little sister...


Thank you for your kind words! :smile: ohwell

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Fri 07/25/08 10:29 PM
Well I pose this question to you Lee. What if you do take a chance? What if when you take that chance you are rejected? But you're so out of your mind in love with this person that it's difficult to see beyond the hope that just what if? Answer me what you do when you feel helpless and there isn't anything you can do about it. What do you do then?

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Fri 07/25/08 05:36 PM
Don't you hate it when you're broke down on the side of the road and someone comes up to & says, "Hi! Are you having car trouble?" Ummmm no... I'm just standing here looking under the hood of my car for my health.. sheesh...

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Fri 07/25/08 04:30 PM
You know you're getting old when...

You try to white out your spelling mistakes on the computer screen..

When you eat a banana for breakfest, throw your keys in the trash, and walk out with the banana peel.

When coffee regular takes on a whole new meaning..

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Fri 07/25/08 04:19 PM


Laughter can make anything bearable! bigsmile



Does that mean it will remove dresses:banana:


umm.. Not so much! laugh

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Fri 07/25/08 04:06 PM
Laughter can make anything bearable! bigsmile

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Fri 07/25/08 02:32 PM

it pisses me off, when guys ask

'how old are you'
'do you have kids'
'do you want kids'
'what job do you do'
'are you single'

IM LIKE WTF JUST LOOK AT MY ****IN PROFILE--- DUH noway noway noway



laugh exactly!

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Fri 07/25/08 02:16 PM
Are you gay? That was my #1 question. If people would just read my profile... I swear no one pervs you anymore before asking questions. noway

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Fri 07/25/08 01:10 AM
Yes they can work. It really depends on the person. I know if I found the right person I could definitely handle it. I would probably eventually move closer so I could get to know them in person.

But some people do not have the patience for what it takes.

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Thu 07/24/08 09:55 PM
Edited by Amathyst2 on Thu 07/24/08 09:58 PM
Captain and coke on the rocks please, thanks.. bigsmile

Oh yeah.. And I cannot forget the Columbian Gold please.. :smile: glasses smokin